Feels, Emotions, Relationships and DRAMA

The Law of Drama is the Law of Relationship™ that separates us from love with dramatic experiences, over-reactions, resentments, and mistaking our [very loud] feelings for our intuition. To break the Law of Drama we must accept that when we take steps toward...

Letting Go of Rejection

When you master rejection you master life.  If you are feeling hurt and limited by rejection or the fear of rejection please watch this video I made for you. Watch here=====> https://youtu.be/WGC4fb24oEE

The Backlash of Success

Whatever you have been through has made you who you are today. For those of us who have "gotten our asses kicked" by the Universe and who dared to make it to other side---that situation, the one that broke our hearts and overwhelmed us and the one that left us feeling...

Unconditional Love’s Shadow

Unconditional love is a beautiful ideal that some people [unfortunately] choose to abuse. Watch this video for insight into the negative waves that people use the ideal of unconditional love to hurt, manipulate, and control others. The content in this video teaches...

The Affliction of Moving On

Moving on from a breakup or a divorce and healing from heartbreak is NOT an easy process. It is times like these when your heart is calling you forth to listen to its wisdom. I made a short (under 10 minute) video to support you in courageous healing through your...

The Myth of Empathy

Are you highly compassionate and empathetic and still experience being treated badly in your relationships? If you answered yes, you need to break the Law of Sacrifice, one of the Laws of Relationship™ that separates you from love by urging you to put yourself...

Your Unique Vantage Point- Video

Your Unique Vantage Point- Video

Our feelings can get really hurt in our relationships and that sometimes it is really tough to move forward. In this video I outline a perspective that my clients and I use to make sense of situations that are really tough emotionally and to be at peace when things do...

Don’t Let Your Mind Fool You! [Case Study]

Love and intimate relationships are NOT something to just “figure out.”  In the last seven years of working with clients on their relationships and love lives, I have found that some of us approach love with caution—-believing that if we can “figure it out,”  we will...

The Dance of Indignation

The Dance of Indignation

Definition of indignant: feeling or showing anger because of something unjust or unworthy : filled with or marked by indignation (Merriam-Webster Dictionary. I remember how I felt when I "met" this word. I remember feeling seen, loved, and "at home" within myself,...

Missed Connections

Missed Connections

  It was during the summer of 2009 when I wrote my first [and so far only] missed connection. I was living in my hometown, El Paso, TX, working a job I barely tolerated, and grappling with the predicament of being in love with two men at the same time. To cope...