Unconditional Love’s Shadow

Unconditional love is a beautiful ideal that some people [unfortunately] choose to abuse. Watch this video for insight into the negative waves that people use the ideal of unconditional love to hurt, manipulate, and control others. The content in this video teaches...

The Affliction of Moving On

Moving on from a breakup or a divorce and healing from heartbreak is NOT an easy process. It is times like these when your heart is calling you forth to listen to its wisdom. I made a short (under 10 minute) video to support you in courageous healing through your...

The Myth of Empathy

Are you highly compassionate and empathetic and still experience being treated badly in your relationships? If you answered yes, you need to break the Law of Sacrifice, one of the Laws of Relationship™ that separates you from love by urging you to put yourself...

Your Unique Vantage Point- Video

Your Unique Vantage Point- Video

Our feelings can get really hurt in our relationships and that sometimes it is really tough to move forward. In this video I outline a perspective that my clients and I use to make sense of situations that are really tough emotionally and to be at peace when things do...

Don’t Let Your Mind Fool You! [Case Study]

Love and intimate relationships are NOT something to just “figure out.”  In the last seven years of working with clients on their relationships and love lives, I have found that some of us approach love with caution—-believing that if we can “figure it out,”  we will...

The Dance of Indignation

The Dance of Indignation

Definition of indignant: feeling or showing anger because of something unjust or unworthy : filled with or marked by indignation (Merriam-Webster Dictionary. I remember how I felt when I "met" this word. I remember feeling seen, loved, and "at home" within myself,...

Missed Connections

Missed Connections

  It was during the summer of 2009 when I wrote my first [and so far only] missed connection. I was living in my hometown, El Paso, TX, working a job I barely tolerated, and grappling with the predicament of being in love with two men at the same time. To cope...

Leap Into Love Liberation

Each time I connect with a client I am amazed by the wisdom that comes through. I am always left feeling energized and completely in awe. Each person I work with is so precious and each session is sacred. Being coached, coaching, and watching someone be coached can be...

Confronting Your Way to Compassion

In many spiritual and personal development circles, there is a lot of talk about compassion and love, but there is a culture of avoidance when it comes to confrontation. As a Love Renegade I believe that confrontation is sacred. It is an opportunity to stand in your...