Forbidden Truth of Human Design

by | Nov 26, 2024 | human design

Forbidden Truth about Human Design by Lauren Kay Wyatt

When you read this, I’ll be in my hometown with my husband, spending time with dear friends and family!

This is the first time we’ve been home for a holiday since 2016!

For the last few years, we’ve opted out of many traditions in hopes of making the holidays our own.

As I type this, I remember that 2016 was the year I discovered Human Design. My friend gave me a reading that told me all about my aura type, my energetic wiring, and how I was best designed to make decisions.

At the time, much of the reading resonated. My energy showed I was highly intuitive, psychic, and powerful—Junior (my word for ego loved this, lol), but the decision-making part? Not so much.

As a generator aura type, part of my strategy for making decisions is ” waiting to respond.”  As someone whose identity was rooted in being a go-getter, I had a visceral reaction to waiting!

No one tells me to wait!

Still, the reading haunted me.

Fast-forward years later, and I was burnt out and extremely frustrated with my business. Nothing was working the way my Junior (the word we used for ego) wanted it to. Everything was harder than it needed to be.

I knew I was out of alignment. Thankfully, my Junior was open to listening. I asked the Universe for support and a good friend immediately suggested I try this Human Design thing.

I relented—choosing to trust and surrender–it was uncomfortable!

At this moment, I met Raquel Reyna, a woman who would become my human design teacher, mentor, and, later, dear friend.

Giving Human Design a shot changed everything drastically. My life and business changed quickly. As I followed that generator strategy of waiting to respond, my inner authority (another aspect of decision-making in Human Design) led me to lean increasingly into my psychic gifts, becoming a pet psychic and releasing all of the misaligned “business coaching” I’d received since I began my entrepreneurial journey in 2012–yrs some of the advice was excellent but other advice was terrible—more on this another time!

Anyway, I’m reaching out today not just to talk about Human Design and my journey but also to share a fun and insightful panel I participated in called “The Forbidden Truth about Human Design.”

In this video, we discuss the origin of Human Design, which involves a mystical encounter and psychedelics. 

This is something that no one has talked about before, yet it’s becoming increasingly important as more and more people are turning to psychedelics for healing and spiritual awakening.

In case you’re wondering, I have not taken psychedelics for spiritual awakening and healing. So far, my inner authority isn’t interested. 

In this panel discussion, you’ll hear from a person who administers plant medicine, a person who chose sobriety, and all of our thoughts on human design, spiritual awakening, and the methods to support healing and growth. 

I look forward to hearing what you think! Have you had a Human Design reading? What’s your spiritual journey story, and how do you support your well-being and spiritual growth? 

Happy Thanksgiving!

Feeling the Tension? Eclipse Energy and Conflict

by | Oct 2, 2024 | avoiding conflict

new moon solar eclipse
Today, Wednesday, October 2nd, we have a new moon solar eclipse! Even though you may not live in the part of the world where the solar eclipse is taking place, its energy is so palpable that it can be felt throughout the whole planet—not just on the day of the eclipse but ten days before and ten days after!

Looking around, you will likely notice quite a bit of conflict! You may even feel it within your body!

Of course, we do not need an eclipse—or psychic predictions or astrology insights—to show us that the world is an intense place with plenty of conflict, but its timing gives us time to reflect.

[BTW, if you are not signed up for the Clarity Portal, new Weekly Predictions will drop on Friday, and a Monthly Reading will come out on the first Monday of every month—with short daily messages, too. My predictions—especially my audio healing transmissions—offer support, wisdom, and psychic direction to help you navigate with love, trust, and confidence. You can sign up via the button below:]

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Learning to navigate conflict effectively [and with love, trust, and confidence] has been a massive part of my path. In the past, when I felt conflict, I would seek to release it as quickly as possible—usually by getting into an argument or shutting down completely.

Over the years, I realized that my former approach—while completely understandable—lacked diplomacy. I am so energetically sensitive, feel and see everything, and pride myself on radical honesty.

In the past, I did not have the tools or experience that I do now. I did not know how to effectively manage my psychic energy and empathy.

As we approach this solar eclipse today, which spotlights conflict in our relationships, I wanted to offer you some of what I have learned over the years.

1.) Things take time to resolve.

The waiting period between the conflict and the resolution will take however long it needs to take. Waiting can be uncomfortable—especially when we are ready to put something behind us—but the sooner we accept that things happen with Divine Timing and not Junior’s Timing [Junior is the word we use for ego], the more open and allowing we are for healing and reconciliation.

2.) It’s OK to “Be Wrong.”

When we are in conflict, it is easy to see the other person as the “bad guy” and us as either the “good guy” or the person who was “right.” Please know that even if you did not do anything wrong, the other person will have their viewpoint and maybe even their agenda. By using empathy to see their side and compassion to see your part in the situation, you allow healing to take place and step into higher octaves of your personal power!

3.) Live and Let Live

Sometimes, a relationship, the role you play in it, or the dynamic within it has run its course. Endings are not always easy and clean. Often, they are messy and heartbreaking and come with a grieving process.

Most of us try not to feel those painful emotions by spiritual bypassing, denial, or hiding behind our anger and self-righteousness. Some of us believe it’s up to us to “save the relationship” and “be the better person.”

When we are in any of these places, we stifle our growth—which can prevent amazing circumstances and people from entering our lives! If you can let go, you allow yourself to grow into who you want to be. Whether or not the other person joins you on your journey is their choice.

4.) Acknowledge how your ideals and standards may be holding you back.

Our juniors may think we cannot move on or be at peace within ourselves until another person takes accountability or apologizes for how things unfolded. If we get some apology, acknowledgment, or olive branch, our juniors may deem it insufficient.

Even though we may doubt the other person’s sincerity, we can still choose whether to carry the burden of the conflict or to put it down. You do not need their apology at all.

If you happen to get one, my advice is to graciously accept it and move on with your life. You do not have to carry the burden of both the conflict and your judgment of their apology—that is a lot to carry! Instead, replenish yourself by releasing the burden and putting your energy towards yourself, your healing, and something fun and productive!

We are responsible for our peace and whether or not we grow from the conflict. The other person’s actions—however hurtful, inappropriate, or harmful— have already impacted us. Please understand that the more we hold onto the pain and expect something different, the longer the distance between us and peace.

5.) It actually has nothing to do with them.

Resolution and moving on have nothing to do with the other person, whether they accept our apology, forgive us, or ever acknowledge their part in it. Healing occurs when we let go, step into our wholeness, and approach conflict in new ways.

We begin to see the situation and our role in it.

We acknowledge how our way of approaching conflict may have inhibited our growth.

We accept that the other person may have untrue ideas about us and let them go, trusting our experience over what they may or may not think of us.

We start to pay attention to ourselves by noticing how our actions impact others and how theirs influence us.

6.) Give yourself a break!

Being a person is really, really challenging—especially during such a high conflict time! It is so easy to get wrapped up in drama, feel the pain of the world, and beat ourselves up. No matter what kind of conflict or drama you may be experiencing, remember to be gentle and kind with yourself. The more compassionate you are with yourself, the more peace you can cultivate within yourself. On the days that you judge yourself for “not doing a good job,” take that as a new moment to love and accept yourself. Celebrate yourself for how far you have come, take a break, and then keep going.

OK, so that is all for now! There is so much more to say, but we all have lives to attend to! Thank you for reading!

[Lunar Eclipse Story] Power of Release

by | Mar 27, 2024 | illusion of drama

You may have heard that we are in the midst of a lunar eclipse. This means you may have noticed the presence of relationship drama and emotional conflict—whether in your life or those close to you!

Even though this is pretty uncomfortable, celebrate that you are becoming increasingly aware of what is no longer working within yourself, your life, and within your relationships. You feel the pull to redefine yourself and choose who you want to be.

If you feel like things are messy right know, remember that each of us is an expression of the Divine. As Divine beings, we are offered the opportunity for transformation, and transformation makes a Divine Mess (ahem, masterpiece) of all of us! 

The Illusion of Drama is the archetype of change. Change can feel chaotic and dramatic, but know that if you are on a path of transformation and growth, you cannot avoid it! It’s inevitable, but how you choose to respond to change determines whether or not the Illusion of Drama holds you back. When we resist change, we make things much more difficult!

When we are on a path of transformation, we usually feel the urge to succumb to Junior (my word for ego) and doubt ourselves. We can “feel bad” for making tough decisions and beat ourselves up for things not going smoothly. 

This lunar eclipse urges us to free ourselves from the drama by letting go, moving on, and trusting. 

I’ll give an example by sharing a story of my own…

In 2018, I made an unpopular and powerful decision: I stopped talking to my mother. This was an extremely difficult choice, but I knew deep within the core of my being that it had to be done.

Over the years, I would receive feedback that I was cruel to do such a thing—that my choice was causing others—not just my mother—to suffer. I was told that I lacked compassion. Some said, “How can you call yourself a relationship expert and not have a good relationship with your mother?”  

[Of course, my Junior totally brought these things to my attention as well—which is why I attracted this feedback from others! Oh, Junior!]

To break through the Illusion of Drama, I would remind myself that I am NOT an “ordinary relationship expert;” I am a Love Renegade. Being a doormat and allowing someone to treat me poorly is way more “out of integrity” than having an inauthentic shell of a relationship that “society” would approve of! 

As I look back at what happened, I see that my choice allowed me to practice radical self-trust and self-compassion. I advocated for myself and chose to trust that what I was doing was a love-based choice that would assist all involved. Instead of trying to fit into some illusion of a social norm that suffocates and confines us all, I rebelled—trusting that my choice would assist all of us in having healthier, more authentically satisfying relationships!

During the time apart, I healed my heart, reclaimed my power through loving myself through all the messy emotions, deepened my relationship with the Divine, and even explored—on a highly practical level—what it meant to forgive, heal, and move forward. 

Fast-forward—my mom and I have reconnected and are on excellent terms. Our relationship is supportive, honest, and authentic. We each took responsibility for the fallout and have returned better than ever. 

Healing is the highest form of rebellion! I share this to inspire you to trust yourself and your messy process! 

Trust that if you want to tap into your highest potential, have amazing relationships, and achieve great things—you may need to let something or someone go—whether it’s a person, a relationship dynamic, or a “bad habit.” It can mean choosing to see through illusion and endure the discomfort of making positive choices.

Likewise, if you are on the receiving end of a conflict—for instance, if you are the person who is broken up with or left behind—choose to accept that even though this is emotionally painful, not having that person in your life or having that boundary in place serves you, too. Let this propel you to new heights of healing, wholeness, and empowerment. Trust that if you are meant to reconnect, you will. Know that it could be better than it was before! 

For either side and no side at all, trust the process and love yourself. Navigate with love, trust, and confidence by embracing change and choosing to grow!

Worst Choice Ever!

by | Mar 20, 2024 | Living Beyond Illusion

Last week, I shared with you a choice I made that most “normal” people would likely regret. It involved a genuine narcissist, a lot of money, and abuse—psychological, emotional, and spiritual abuse!

However, as someone who experiences life deeply, I have come to accept that I may have created an intense experience to show me what’s important and real. 

Even though it totally sucked—and of course, I had days where my Junior (our word for ego) was beating me up over the WORST, MOST EMBARRASSING CHOICE I had ever made in my life—even though all of this was true, this “terrible experience” gifted me with the following:

  • Deeper connection with the Divine, myself, and my husband.
  • Empowered me to view life’s challenges through a spiritual lens—definitely not through a religious lens or some outdated corporate “hustle culture” business perspective! 
  • Profound acknowledgment of my power and purpose.
  • Heightened my bullshit detector and upped my spidey senses.
  • Led me to navigate with trust, love, and confidence and successfully rebuild!
  • Rise above negative cultural conditioning.

This begs the question: Can it really be the WORST CHOICE IN THE WORLD if it leads to such good things?

This entire situation shows how I reclaimed my power and broke free from Illusion—especially that damn Illusion of Drama!!

What if your “shitty situation” has the potential to be a powerful catalyst for you?  

What if your stagnation is calling you into a higher level of potential?  

What if it’s time for you to break free of illusion and claim your power? 

What would your life and relationships be like if you released all the bullshit and aligned yourself with the Divine?

I choose to live fully and do my best to go beyond illusion and support others in their individual process! My spiritual group coaching program Living Beyond Illusion meets next week on Tuesday, Mar 26, 2024 at 12 PM PST/ 2 PM CST/ 3 PM EST.

Whether you are ready for your next breakthrough or want support on how to focus your energy to allow in all the blessings that the Universe wants to give you, I suggest you do yourself a favor and say yes! ✊‍♂️

Here are the details of Living Beyond Illusion: https://laurenkaywyatt.com/living-beyond-illusion/

I want to connect with you personally to see if it’s right for you. I have consultations available: https://calendly.com/laurenkaywyatt/living-beyond-illusion-chat

Now imagine…What would it feel like to say yes to what you want and trust that you will receive all the support you need along the way?

Now, enjoy that feeling!

Healing is the Highest Form of Rebellion!

by | Mar 13, 2024 | Living Beyond Illusion

I have a story for you!  Usually, when I reach out to you, it’s to offer you wisdom and insight on your journey. Being a spiritual being in this 3D physical world isn’t always easy, and if you’re anything like me, feeling Divinely Supported is invaluable!

Each Friday, I send out my Weekly Predictions, channeling the energies of the week ahead to assist you in navigating with love, trust, and confidence. 

In February, I did this through my Healing from Illusion 4-Day Masterclass, where I shed light on the Illusions of Relationship™, how they impact you daily, and what you can do to heal and break free. 

I do this with my Quiz about the Illusions of Relationship™ to enlighten you about how you disempower yourself and unknowingly sabotage your relationships and personal well-being.

If you are on my secret list, the Psychic Minute, you know that every day, I send a quick, short channeled message to assist you in your day.

Have you ever wondered why my work focuses on using psychic and spiritual energies to empower self-trust, healing, and self-confidence?

I share this because my life has been a series of events where, each time, I am reminded of how profoundly important it is to listen to your inner wisdom and live an authentic spiritual life. Doing so frees you from the false perception that life happens to you, otherwise known as the victim mindset.

There are so many stories I could tell you about my own experience of having an empowered mind versus a victim mindset—as well as what I have seen with my client. Still, I will focus on a relatively recent one that is entirely my story.

It began in 2020 when we were all experiencing intense personal growth and a collective transformational experience. I made one of the worst decisions of my life, and the fallout from this decision was astronomical. It was probably the most embarrassing story about overriding my own intuition as a psychic, and it included one of the worst financial decisions I have ever made.

I let someone into my life who was a full-blown narcissist. I allowed myself to be manipulated by this person into investing a considerable amount of money with them, only to be emotionally and spiritually abused and humiliated during nearly every encounter with them!

Even if I was temporarily financially broke, this person DID NOT break my spirit. When I also saw this person was trying to start a cult, I high-tailed it out of there and cut them loose!

At that moment, I was challenged to follow my advice in knowing in my bones that healing was the highest form of rebellion, but at the same time, feeling stupid and victimized. I could not believe what I did!

I was under the illusion that I had to take her advice, which was incredibly inauthentic and unaligned. For a brief period of time, I did something that I promised myself I would never do: I tried to sell out!

I say I tried to sell out because it did not work!! Along with my Higher Self, the Universe, and the Divine Spirit, I was protected from having any kind of success by selling out; as a result, I vowed never to act on fear and self-doubt again, allowed myself to follow my strong intuition, and completely removed myself from this person and her “spiritual” coaching community!

This was a harrowing lesson for me. As I sat with my Junior, my word for ego, I had some tough conversations with myself about how I bought into illusion and allowed myself to be victimized, bamboozled, and disempowered.  I felt stupid and broken—not to mention I was in a lot of debt—but at the same time, I knew that I had no choice. I had to surrender to the Divine and rebuild my life completely.

As I contemplated my life, I discovered new levels of empathy and compassion. Thankfully, my relationship with my husband, Daniel, is one of my most sacred things. We are both on a path of growth, love one another, and see each other fully and completely.

I have never really been a doormat or ever allowed someone to take advantage of me or hurt me, so this experience with an emotionally abusive narcissist completely disoriented me and threw me for a loop. 

It was pretty traumatic, and I had to use all of my tools to heal and rebuild. In my contemplation, I felt that my soul chose this for me to get first-hand experience of what it was like to be manipulated, bypass my inner knowing, and archetypically speaking, what it was like to be under a person’s spell. Beyond this, it helped me really get in touch with making wise choices without the influence of other people or current events and circumstances! I want everyone to experience such a high level of self-trust and affirmation! 

A blessing of this experience has empowered me to assist my clients in their healing adventure of trusting themselves and breaking free of unhealthy situations and relationships. More than that, I am able to assist my clients with genuine authority in rising above feeling victimized, how to transform challenges into blessings, and how to move beyond illusion and chaos. And even more than that, I help my clients be their most authentic selves and create an empowered mindset and life where they are happier and feel more at ease–regardless of what’s happening in their lives!

I also got to look at myself and how I had temporarily lost myself. Hiring this person helped me grow in massive ways that would benefit everyone involved! It was just not in the way that I originally wanted!  I endured the ultimate “contrast experience” to help me reconnect with my soul, the Divine, and NEW LEVELS of authenticity, self-empowerment, and self-trust. I really feel that I chose this to put all my tools to the test and to prevail.

Healing is the highest form of rebellion!

One thing that has continued to bless me again and again is that I always follow my intuition and will be relentless true to myself and inner knowing—even without proof and even when others disagree with me or want me to make another choice! This has been a huge blessing since I can feel other people and it can feel uncomfortable to follow my intuition when they have their own agenda with me. 

Continuing to deepen my knowledge of illusions, which I received in a spiritual download years ago, and how our Junior influences us and our decisions  continues to bless, deepen, and expand my sacred work with clients! I use my gifts, my skillset, and my embodied experience to help clients empower and trust themselves and to RISE ABOVE THE DRAMA AND STRUGGLE!

This situation helped me remember that healing is the highest form of rebellion.  Here’s what I mean: If you are going through a night or a painful and intense situation, the best thing you can do is heal and work on yourself. Every crisis in our lives allows us to align more with the Divine and free ourselves from illusion! If you are in a victim mindset or you feel victimized, you owe it to yourself to heal, expand, and reinvent!

Doing so helped me completely free myself from debt, deepen my spiritual and psychic skill set, and transform my health, as I am entirely asthma-free now, and have an empowered, resilient and strong mind! The bottom line is that I reclaimed my power. I have helped my clients do that, and want the same for you in your next chapter!

I have chosen to keep enrollment open for Living Beyond Illusion until the end of the month. We had our first kick-off call in our small yet mighty group, and it was SO powerful! If you feel pulled to being with us and meeting your authentic, most loving badass, Love Renegade version of yourself, let’s talk!  I have consultations available; you can also email me for more information. 

In this six-month program, participants will move through all illusions and step into new levels of emotional and spiritual freedom, wholeness, authenticity, and expansion. It’s six payments of $350 a month or one payment of $2000. Check it out here: https://laurenkaywyatt.com/living-beyond-illusion/

Sending you all blessings of love, joy, and expansion!!

Remember, healing is your highest form of rebellion! What could this year be for you with an authentically empowered mindset? Let’s chat!