August Clarity Portal: Illusions of competition and conformity

For the last several weeks I have received psychic nudges and external signs from the Universe to film myself in a trance-like state, as I access my very own clarity portal. It feels vulnerable to do this, but when the time was right, I acted upon the guidance.

The result of this contains a sacred healing transmission and an energy blessing to support you in the month of August 2022. Here is an excerpt from the beginning of the video:

“I notice that within this month, perhaps because it is the month of Leo, a lot of people are fighting for the spotlight, fighting to be heard, and they really want to be seen. This is a time to honor your heart. What does this mean? It means that this is a month to do what supports your inner joy. In August, we want you to be aware of society’s conditioning and what it means to follow your heart. What makes you whole may be different from what you see in the media. This is a time to shine the cosmic spotlight onto yourself so that you may be revealed.”

As I reflect on this message from the August clarity portal, I find themes of competition, conformity, and what it means to allow your true essence to shine.

With social media, we see that we are in a time where it is really apparent that so many people want their opinion to matter and not only that, they are seeking external validation only for their opinion and putting other people in boxes who do not appear to share the same values and opinions. While it is important to be aware of our own preferences, sometimes we can block ourselves from seeing and hearing clearly when we are too attached to our thoughts, opinions, and emotions.

Spirit is asking us to turn the Cosmic spotlight away from other people onto ourselves so that we may see how we are really showing up and whether [or not] we are living from a sense of love, wholeness, and authentic self-expression, or if we are caught up in the illusions of competition and conformity.

My favorite part of the video is the energy blessing that comes toward the end of the video. This blessing brings us back to truth, wholeness, and peace.

Watch the video here: https://youtu.be/WdI3WiuGsNA

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Seeing Beyond the Illusion

As a psychic, I am gifted with the ability to see beyond perceived problems and challenges.  This means that even when things are difficult, I am able to look beyond how things appear and to receive what is needed for that moment. 

This gift to see beyond is so much more than simply telling the future, but it is giving the seeker what they need to know about themselves and the situation at hand.  Sometimes, we go through tough times because the way in which we have been doing our lives is no longer aligned. In this time of obstacles, we are asked to look at our potential.

Think for a moment at how you respond to drama and obstacles in your life.  Do you absorb the uncomfortable energy or do you fight really hard to change your circumstances? Both types of responds lead to stress and not the good kind either.

What if in this challenging time, you chose to shine through the obstacles and perceived challenges?  Right now, as I type this, I receive a vision of a dark room—there are no windows and there is nothing but darkness in this room—until cracks begin to form within the walls.  Most people might be afraid of seeing cracks in the walls—but what this means for you is that the way you are perceiving your life right now is not exactly true.  What does light do when there are cracks in the wall?  It shines through—creating light in the dark room.

Now, I want you to see yourself: your higher self, as the light that is shining through the cracks.  With the newfound light, your Junior can now find a way out.  

This is how you shine through! So what this means for you is that right now there may be something in your life that you feel uncertain, uncomfortable, or negative about.  Instead of hanging out in the symbolic dark room with no light and ventilation, visualize yourself as the light—making its way through the cracks, shining light, and showing you the way out.

Giving yourself a chance to “see beyond” shows you that there is so much more to life than the symbolic dark room. There is a whole big world out there—a world beyond your perceived problems and insecurities.

You do not need to feel confident or worthy enough to experience the bigger picture.. Instead all you need to be is willing.  Be willing to access your light and shine through—no matter what is happening.

Are your boundaries blocking you from abundance?

are boundaries blocking abundance

Let’s talk about boundaries, the often arbitrary lines that let us know what is ok and what is not ok, and the role of boundaries in abundance. 

If you are anything like me, you did not grow up with healthy boundaries modeled to you. You may have had experiences where your boundaries were violated. Your first experiences in setting boundaries may have been because you experienced the pain of what it was not to have them. 

You may not know this about me, but over the last decade, boundaries have been a personal life project of mine. Recently, I have seen that many well-meaning and hurt people weaponize their boundaries, whereby their boundaries are actually a form of defensiveness.

While I certainly understand this and have done this myself, my eyes are wide open to how many of us block ourselves from higher levels of love and abundance through being defensive, all in the guise of “setting boundaries” and standing up for ourselves. 

If we have known each other over the years, then you know that I am a fan of “standing up for yourself.” As someone who has referred to herself as a “recovering doormat” and who has attracted many situations that felt unjust and simply wrong—I am not suggesting that you allow other people to treat you badly. Not at all!

Instead, I am asking you to check in with your own motivation and the energy behind your boundaries. Are you setting boundaries to create higher levels of love and connection or to “protect yourself” from people who hurt you?  Ask yourself, “In standing up for myself, what am I standing for? Am I protecting an old identity or being self-righteous? Is there any part of my reaction that would be defensive?”

While you tune into those questions, I will share a story with you. Someone I once coached several months back got very upset with me and fired me. Why? Well, I “violated her boundaries” and she “needed space.” What did I do? I gave her honest, intuitive, LOVING feedback that her choices lacked integrity and were not aligned with what she wanted to experience and create.

You and I both know that I did not share this opinion with her to hurt her, but her Junior (my word for ego) saw the situation very differently and decided to set some really strong boundaries by ending our coaching relationship. I believe that if she would have let herself explore the strong feelings that came up and if she chose to see me as being on her side, rather than as a big monster who she needed to get away from, then she could have opened herself up to new levels of authenticity, love, trust, and abundance. 

All of this brings me to the point of this message…There are times when boundaries are rooted in defensiveness. My request to you is to acknowledge areas in your life where you are being rigid and blocking yourself from new levels of love and abundance.

I realize it’s a big ask. This particular conversation about boundaries requires self-awareness, self-compassion, and a willingness to look within. I promise you that identifying these patterns will continue to liberate you and allow you to enter the oasis of abundance.

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Rejection Messiness & Decisions

When you master rejection, you master life. Whether you like it or not, it supports you to accept that rejection is a part of life.

You are constantly choosing what to say yes to, what to say no to. When to wait, when to act, when to move forward.

If you do not “reject” an idea, a person, an offer, etc—you are stuck in indecision. Often, when we are indecisive, we are pushing away opportunities for expansion, success, and abundance.

The worst kind of rejection is when you REJECT YOURSELF—aka denying your own inner truth—by staying in the situation, relationship, or dynamic for way too long!!!

So when choosing to leave a situation or relationship, all you can do is make sure you leave with integrity.

Trust that no matter how much of an empath you are, know that you are NOT RESPONSIBLE for how the other person feels about your choice to leave.

Their feelings are theirs and you have no business micro-managing those feelings!

If there is a reaction from the other person about your choice, let them have their reaction, respond if you need to, and move on. Trust that your departure benefits the highest good.

On the flip side, if you feel hurt that someone says no to you or chooses to move their life in a different direction—LOVE YOURSELF through your pain—trusting that their choice is NOT ABOUT YOU.

For both the rejector and rejected, release the other with Love. See the situation as aligned to both your highest good and for your journey as a whole. <3 One of my gifts is helping my clients trust themselves and their decision-making process. Not only am I psychic and skilled at reading situations, relationships, and people, but I am certified and trained in modalities, such as Soul Realignment and Human Design, that support my clients in connecting with their intuition and innate decision-making process. When you know how you are wired to make decisions and actually follow this sacred guidance, you tap into trust and authentic self-confidence. This allows you to create a life and relationships that you love---as well as learn how to respond to the "curveballs" that the Universe throws at you. I would love to assist you with your journey! Check out my psychic boutique and get a reading! Also, I have specials going on in March so reach out by email if something grabs your attention.

into the shadows of “happy”

Reflection, contemplation, and release—all energies associated with the Solstice. To assist you in leaving behind what no longer supports you, I would like to offer you two things. First, I want to invite you to have a Grand Tableau Reading with me. In this reading, we will look directly at the future and all circumstances, dynamics, etc that you can use to navigate the first part of 2022. This session is $277 and 75 minutes. I would love the opportunity to support you on your love and life path and in healing the Illusions of Relationship™.  Make your payment here.  and I will be in touch with you within two days to schedule your session. Second, I want to shed light on the Illusion of Satisfaction, the Illusion of Relationship™ that separates you from Love by causing you to NOT acknowledge what you are actually tolerating.Be warned. I am going to be very direct in my communication about the Illusion of Satisfaction. Please know that while my delivery may seem harsh, I am carrying a healing intention of reconnecting you with our power so that you can experience authentic satisfaction, joy, and love. The Illusion of Satisfaction triggers your Junior—my word for ego—to “fool yourself” into believing that you like and enjoy what you are, in fact, tolerating.  This can pertain to mistaken thinking aka the limiting beliefs that you carry. It points to the relationship dynamics you insist on keeping.One example of this is so many of us say that we want a “good relationship.”  We all want and desire love and yet we are not “good” to ourselves. Instead, we allow ourselves to be treated badly.  We make ourselves really small to be “nice people” and we tolerate terrible behavior from others—without realizing that they are an externalized representation of how we are treating ourselves!If you want to have a “good relationship” you must be “good” to yourself.To heal the Illusion of Satisfaction within you…1.) Start by looking closely at where you choose limitations. What “stories” do you tell yourself that encourage self-deception?  Just so that you know—these are often the areas where you blame yourself and others and feel that you do not have a choice.2.) Demand more from yourself by asking yourself, “Why do I continue to tolerate these things? Am I really so fearful of the unknown?  Am I really that afraid of love? Why do I cling to what hurts me?” 3.) Experience all of the emotions—even anger, rage, and sadness. By allowing yourself to experience and acknowledge these emotions, you set yourself free, and you are more able to access pure satisfaction and joy. Thank you for reading.  If you want more information on the Illusion of Satisfaction, watch this video on my YouTube channel, where I am much softer in my approach. 😈Thank you so much for letting me guide you with my own contemplations! Sending you so much love and blessings of gratitude. 💚With Love and Wisdom,

Lauren P.S. A few people have reached out and asked me if I am still accepting long-term coaching clients.  The answer is a very authentically satisfied YES!! I love my new structure in my coaching programs!! ❤️ If you are interested, please consider starting with a Grand Tableau Readingwhere you tap into gaining access to authentic confidence and satisfaction. Make your purchase here, and I will be in touch within a couple of days to schedule your session. Please know that due to the nature of this service, all sales are final and no refunds are offered.