No Permission Needed
It is Mistaken Thinking to believe that you need permission from some outside authority to have what you desire. You may wonder, "who is this perceived outside authority?" Before we go into the answer to that question, let's talk about change. Please consider the...
Best Relationships
Daniel and I have been together for 12 years. He is my favorite person. I sincerely believe that this is because both of us are committed to our own growth and respect each other as individuals. Neither one of us wants to change the other or lives in the past of our...
Exposing False Love + Mistaken Thinking
Many people I connect with express to me that they want to have fulfilling relationships where they feel loved, seen, and supported by others. What I have found is that while this is a beautiful ideal, it is an ideal that can unknowingly push love away. With the...
Exploring the Need to Suffer with Coaching Questions
One form of mistaken thinking is believing that life has to be hard and that relationships take a lot of work. Many people believe that we have to suffer in order to grow and that anything worth having requires a lot of work. While there is a little bit of truth to...
Widespread Mistaken Thinking + Special Offer
Tired of feeling frustrated, overwhelmed, and stuck in your current relationships? You might be experiencing mistaken thinking, a phenomenon which makes it very hard for you to see the opportunities in front of you, causing you to take incongruent action, which...
Illusion of Absorption- Video
NEW VIDEO about the Illusion of Absorption, the Illusion of Relationship™ that separates you from love with mistaken thinking, over thinking, and believing you know everything! Watch the video here: https://youtu.be/J8KydWyPwks Read the transcription below, but...
Energetics of “Trying”
There is a difference between doing something new with gusto and trying. When we try, we are unknowingly activating the Illusion of Perfection, one of the Illusions of Relationship™. It's a heavy energy! Watch the Illusion of Perfection video...
Do Away with Perfection!
Perfection really is a sneaky beast! It urges us to follow the crowd and while it may lead to some sort of validation, it is really shallow and superficial at best. Really, any praise obtained from trying to be perfect, is the equivalent of fast food. It feels good...
Illusion of Perfection Keynotes
Watch the newest video on the Illusion of Perfection here:===>https://youtu.be/kf6ZJvdqeG8 You can read the transcription below, but it is highly recommended that you watch the video. What we are going to talk about right now is the Illusion of Perfection. The...
Expectations, Fear & Anger-Oh my!
How many times have you spoken your truth, only to be on the receiving end of someone’s wrath? Maybe you have experienced it with family? Maybe during a break up or a fight? Whatever it is, know this: The Illusion of Drama is at play! This is the Illusion of...