Relationship Dynamic Game-Changer!

by | Aug 30, 2023 | Wisdom Wednesday

So often, when we’re in relationships, we can feel powerless. We can sometimes let our emotions take over. We can lose sight of ourselves, and we end up giving all of our power over to that other person. What I mean by that is our sense of well-being and our sense of self-worth can be really contingent upon what another person does or does not do.

Now, maybe you’re watching this video, and you have not felt that way in your relationships. If so, that’s wonderful, but if you’re listening to this and you can relate—whether it’s something that you’re going through now, it’s something that you’ve experienced in the past, or something that you’ve noticed with friends, or loved ones of yours—it’s really important that we acknowledge the power that we do have in our relationships.

[Our power in our relationships] is something that a lot of people overlook. What I’m talking about is it’s what we give our attention to. If right now you you feel bad about yourself because of how someone else has treated you—first of all, acknowledge how you feel, but I encourage you to take a step back and ask yourself, “How do I treat myself?”

Because here’s what’s up—the way that we treat ourselves does influence how other people treat us! I had a mentor who taught me, “We train people how to treat us,” and when I heard this several years ago—wow, so much opened up for me! This has been a process of my journey with boundaries and what’s coming forward today is to look at your relationships and to acknowledge how you feel about yourself in the relationship.

Notice any criticisms that you have for the other person who you’re in this relationship with. Yes, it’s true if it’s a romantic relationship, your significant other. This can be applied to our parents, to our adult children, our friends, clients.

Whatever it is—if you notice that you have some judgments, complaints, or criticisms about the other person—you are being guided to turn that around on yourself!

So, for instance, if you notice within your relationship that you have the perception that you cannot trust this other person, and [this lack of trust] is all based on things that have happened in the past, first of all, acknowledge that you’ve had that thought.

And also, check in with yourself. Ask yourself, “do I trust myself?” Because if we have issues in trusting ourselves, if we don’t listen to all parts of ourselves, if we ignore our intuition about something, if we’ve been in dynamics that are more emotionally abusive where it causes us to second guess ourselves—we may not trust ourselves!

So notice if you have trust issues. Then, check in on how much you trust yourself, because you can trust yourself. You can start cultivating self-trust by really “having your own back,” by taking care of yourself, by noticing these relationships where maybe you’re not treated the way that you’d like to be treated.

Really ask yourself, “Are you treating yourself the way that you would like for people to treat you?” If you’re noticing that you’re constantly put on the back burner or people don’t listen to you, do you listen to yourself? Do you set aside that time with yourself?

Take some time to really receive this message that is coming forward for you, essentially it’s loving yourself to listen to yourself and work on your relationship with yourself.

So, thank you for watching this video with me. I’m Lauren Kay Wyatt. I’m your psychic, your spiritual advisor, your pet psychic, and your transformational coach.

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Handle an Ego Flareup with Ease

by | Aug 23, 2023 | Wisdom Wednesday

So, if you’re watching this right now, maybe “Junior” has paid you a visit. So, who is “Junior”? 

“Junior” is a word that I use to describe “our ego.” Other words for our ego can be our “not self,” “our smaller self,” “our inner critic,” etc. “Junior” is that nagging voice in your head. “Junior” is that inner Saboteur. “Junior” is the one who wants to “play the victim” in every situation. 

Sometimes, in spiritual circles, we can hear things like, “I just want to kill my ego.” 

Sometimes we want to deny that loud part of ourselves, but the thing is—if your junior is really loud right now, and you just go and push Junior in a closet—well, what “resists persists,” and the issue isn’t fully acknowledged.

So you know, and I know that when we ignore something—well, sometimes when we ignore something—it, you know, it can be a good thing as sometimes things resolve on their own, but in this case “Junior” is being really loud.  It’s really good for you to know what’s going on with “Junior” now. 

If you’re in a space where you feel anxious or fearful, I invite you to observe it. Observe it, and have compassion for yourself. Sometimes, being a person can be really hard and what I’ve noticed about “Junior” is “Junior” can get really loud when you’re in a time in your life where you have been trusting yourself more than usual, where you’re taking some steps that are outside your comfort zone. 

Yes, this voice is here because this voice and I mean “Junior’s” voice is afraid of what your life will be like if you continue to trust yourself and do things outside your comfort zone. So Junior gets really really loud.

I would love for you to love yourself, acknowledge how far you’ve come, and give yourself some attention now. This does not mean that you’re going to listen to all of “Junior’s” anxieties; all of “Junior’s” worries. You can listen but don’t have to follow “Junior’s” advice.

Just like in life: if somebody is always making choices that are really fear-based and is afraid of change—for whatever reason—I’m being guided to tell you not to listen to that person but to listen to your-Self, to your intuition to your higher self.

If you’re having a hard time hearing that right now it’s because “Junior” has gotten really loud. So, know that your intuition is not going to speak to you in this yelling fearful berating kind of way. Your intuition is likely going to be calmer. It’s going to feel more self-assured.

At this time, it’s really good for you to practice tuning in and listening to [your intuition] instead of all of the “noise.” The noise can come from within where it’s “Junior” throwing a tantrum. “Junior” can also show up in other people’s “Juniors” as well, so notice what’s going on in your environment. 

Know that you can observe what’s happening. You can be compassionate. You can set boundaries with yourself and with other people. Give yourself time to acknowledge how far you’ve come and listen to yourself.

I’m Lauren Kay Wyatt. I’m your psychic, spiritual advisor, pet psychic, and transformational coach. This is Wisdom Wednesday. 

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The Message You Need to Trust Yourself!

by | Aug 16, 2023 | Wisdom Wednesday

To assist us in navigating with trust, love, and confidence, the message that comes through today is to trust. Yes, we are in a new time. Yes, things are changing. Yes, there is so much uncertainty right now. We’ve been taught to fear uncertainty–when there is excitement around this uncertainty.

Yes, excitement, anxiety, and fear—all of those emotions and feelings can blend together, but the exciting thing about uncertainty is the creative adventure that comes with it! So yes, things are changing. Yes, a new door is opening. Yes, you have free will, and yes, things are happening that are outside of your control!

Something that came into my own awareness not long ago was, “What if Destiny was something that our higher self chose for us?” This Rings true for me, so I want you to know that with [regards to] this uncertainty that is happening—your higher self chose for you to be born into this life for a reason, during this time for a reason—all to experience itself!

With these changes happening and for so many of us we may feel like, “Oh this has been pressed upon me. I can’t. What do I do?”

There can be a fear about how to be in this uncertainty and this new reality, and we can want to cling to the past, but what you’re guided to do is to TRUST. Trust that you are here for a reason, that your entire being and your energy matters, and your gifts are important! 

Please accept this truth and to know that it’s okay to be scared and feel worried. We ask you to gently shift your focus toward the future, this new beginning, what is coming, and what is. 

Focus on this new level of Love, this new level of abundance, this new level of clarity, and Consciousness—trust that your soul is allowing you to choose!

So thank you for tuning in for this Wisdom Wednesday. I am Lauren Kay Wyatt, your psychic, your spiritual advisor, your pet psychic, and your transformational coach and guide for this epic adventure that we call Life.