Feeling the Tension? Eclipse Energy and Conflict

new moon solar eclipse
Today, Wednesday, October 2nd, we have a new moon solar eclipse! Even though you may not live in the part of the world where the solar eclipse is taking place, its energy is so palpable that it can be felt throughout the whole planet—not just on the day of the eclipse but ten days before and ten days after!

Looking around, you will likely notice quite a bit of conflict! You may even feel it within your body!

Of course, we do not need an eclipse—or psychic predictions or astrology insights—to show us that the world is an intense place with plenty of conflict, but its timing gives us time to reflect.

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Learning to navigate conflict effectively [and with love, trust, and confidence] has been a massive part of my path. In the past, when I felt conflict, I would seek to release it as quickly as possible—usually by getting into an argument or shutting down completely.

Over the years, I realized that my former approach—while completely understandable—lacked diplomacy. I am so energetically sensitive, feel and see everything, and pride myself on radical honesty.

In the past, I did not have the tools or experience that I do now. I did not know how to effectively manage my psychic energy and empathy.

As we approach this solar eclipse today, which spotlights conflict in our relationships, I wanted to offer you some of what I have learned over the years.

1.) Things take time to resolve.

The waiting period between the conflict and the resolution will take however long it needs to take. Waiting can be uncomfortable—especially when we are ready to put something behind us—but the sooner we accept that things happen with Divine Timing and not Junior’s Timing [Junior is the word we use for ego], the more open and allowing we are for healing and reconciliation.

2.) It’s OK to “Be Wrong.”

When we are in conflict, it is easy to see the other person as the “bad guy” and us as either the “good guy” or the person who was “right.” Please know that even if you did not do anything wrong, the other person will have their viewpoint and maybe even their agenda. By using empathy to see their side and compassion to see your part in the situation, you allow healing to take place and step into higher octaves of your personal power!

3.) Live and Let Live

Sometimes, a relationship, the role you play in it, or the dynamic within it has run its course. Endings are not always easy and clean. Often, they are messy and heartbreaking and come with a grieving process.

Most of us try not to feel those painful emotions by spiritual bypassing, denial, or hiding behind our anger and self-righteousness. Some of us believe it’s up to us to “save the relationship” and “be the better person.”

When we are in any of these places, we stifle our growth—which can prevent amazing circumstances and people from entering our lives! If you can let go, you allow yourself to grow into who you want to be. Whether or not the other person joins you on your journey is their choice.

4.) Acknowledge how your ideals and standards may be holding you back.

Our juniors may think we cannot move on or be at peace within ourselves until another person takes accountability or apologizes for how things unfolded. If we get some apology, acknowledgment, or olive branch, our juniors may deem it insufficient.

Even though we may doubt the other person’s sincerity, we can still choose whether to carry the burden of the conflict or to put it down. You do not need their apology at all.

If you happen to get one, my advice is to graciously accept it and move on with your life. You do not have to carry the burden of both the conflict and your judgment of their apology—that is a lot to carry! Instead, replenish yourself by releasing the burden and putting your energy towards yourself, your healing, and something fun and productive!

We are responsible for our peace and whether or not we grow from the conflict. The other person’s actions—however hurtful, inappropriate, or harmful— have already impacted us. Please understand that the more we hold onto the pain and expect something different, the longer the distance between us and peace.

5.) It actually has nothing to do with them.

Resolution and moving on have nothing to do with the other person, whether they accept our apology, forgive us, or ever acknowledge their part in it. Healing occurs when we let go, step into our wholeness, and approach conflict in new ways.

We begin to see the situation and our role in it.

We acknowledge how our way of approaching conflict may have inhibited our growth.

We accept that the other person may have untrue ideas about us and let them go, trusting our experience over what they may or may not think of us.

We start to pay attention to ourselves by noticing how our actions impact others and how theirs influence us.

6.) Give yourself a break!

Being a person is really, really challenging—especially during such a high conflict time! It is so easy to get wrapped up in drama, feel the pain of the world, and beat ourselves up. No matter what kind of conflict or drama you may be experiencing, remember to be gentle and kind with yourself. The more compassionate you are with yourself, the more peace you can cultivate within yourself. On the days that you judge yourself for “not doing a good job,” take that as a new moment to love and accept yourself. Celebrate yourself for how far you have come, take a break, and then keep going.

OK, so that is all for now! There is so much more to say, but we all have lives to attend to! Thank you for reading!

The Message You Need to Stop Feeling Drained!

Hi. Welcome to “Wisdom Wednesday.” I’m Lauren Kay Wyatt, your psychic, spiritual advisor, pet psychic, and transformational coach.

Let’s talk about people. More specifically, [let’s talk about] people and all the different energies and perspectives and perceptions that come along when you are with a lot of people.

So, when you’re just in a dynamic with one person—whether it’s on Zoom or the phone or you’re meeting for coffee or a date out with your significant other—whatever it is—your energy is with their energy. Both of you are impacting each other, whether you’re aware of it or not. 

When you’re in a group setting—all those different people and all of those different energy fields are all there together. Again, whether it’s in person, on Zoom—whatever it is [and with however many people are there]—sometimes it’s really easy to get swept up in how the other person is influencing you or how the group of people is impacting your energy.

 This isn’t about, “oh I need to have boundaries. I don’t want anyone to get in. I don’t want to be influenced by anything.” —[all of that] can definitely be an experience that can make things even more wild than [it needs] to be and definitely more dramatic than [it needs] to be! 

The best thing you can do—in any of these situations—whether you’re attending a conference or you’re going on a date, you’re working in a coffee shop or you’re just hanging out at home, whatever it is—is to be aware of yourself!

Before everything that you do, check in with your own energy, breathe, and remind yourself of Who You Are and how you would like to feel in any of these interactions that you’re in. Remember what you stand for as well. 

What I mean by this, specifically, is when we’re in groups of people [such as a] family gathering—whatever it is—[a work situation even]—we can really get swept up by how the whole group thinks or how we think we’re supposed to think. 

Again, it’s really good to be aware of who you are, how you want to feel, and what you want to experience. 

Now, this doesn’t mean that if you’re not quite in agreement with anyone that you have to—oh, I don’t know—get into a fight or have a conflict with someone. No, it’s simply being aware of what’s yours, what’s theirs, and how you feel. 

They’re telling me this also goes for social media. So, whenever you go to check your phone to see your likes—or whatever it is—ask yourself, “why am I checking my social right now? Is it out of boredom? What do I want to get? What am I seeking?

Remind yourself of Who You Are. All of these things that we’ve just talked about will really empower your energy. You will definitely feel more energized, more vibrant, and you’ll get to enjoy these relationships and social settings all the more.

Thank you so much for tuning in. I am Lauren Kay Wyatt, your psychic, spiritual advisor, pet psychic, and transformational coach. 

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