Surrender vs Giving Up vs Giving in

Have you ever felt like it was time to give up?  When you hear the phrase, “give up” what comes into your heart?  Do you feel angry?  Does it make you want to fight harder?  Does it enlist a feeling helplessness?

If you are…

  • Single and have been in the process of finding your best relationship for awhile now
  • Feeling heartbroken from a breakup
  • Experiencing frustration at the dating process
  • Yearning to heal your relationship karma
  • Desire your best relationship with your partner

It could be time for a different type of reaction and new types of choices. Perhaps it time to experience surrender instead?

Whatever your response or situation, know this:  Giving up does not mean giving in. Instead, reframe “giving up” as a conscious choice of surrender. When you choose to surrender, you are choosing freedom. When we are free in our relationships, we reclaim our personal power.  This allows us to be our most recharged selves in our relationships.

In order to free yourself from negativity in your love life, you must be willing to heal.  As this is not the easiest thing to do, I have created a video to assist you in the following:

  • Acknowledging frustration, anger, pain, and heartbreak that you are feeling
  • Using these emotions as a gateway to healing
  • Transforming personal fear into love for optimal healing

Click here to watch the video.

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Healing is an act of love.  Love is the greatest healer.  When we heal, we are empowered to have our best relationships.

How does this video make you feel?

And just to shed a little more light on how we can choose love and an empowered path of healing—even with the most recent current events…

Even in this time of tragedy and senseless violence, I am making a conscious choice to acknowledge the highest potential and love spark in humanity.

In times like this, it is not always easy, but know this: no matter how heartbroken and maybe even hopeless we may feel by current events, please know that you matter. 

While it may feel small or like it is “not good enough,” each time you smile and allow yourself to fully experience the beauty of the moment…for every hug you give and receive, for every time you choose love over fear, you are acting as a part of the solution. You are powerful, loved, and lovable.

finding “the cure” for fake

On Friday night, I reconnected and celebrated with an old friend. I remembered the time when this person first entered my world…
…I was a scared teenager who was trying very hard to fit in. I felt that what I truly wanted—some type of creative and meaningful existence—would unfortunately not be possible due to expectations surrounding me.

  • This person gave me permission to feel my heart.
  • This person helped me explore my emotions.
  • This person was free.
  • This person is Robert Smith, the lead singer of The Cure.

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Ok, so while I have not had the pleasure of personally meeting Robert, I am incredibly grateful and appreciative of his impact on my life.
See, I can relate to him. Sometimes when people look at me, they laugh. When I tell them that I am a Love Psychic, I conjure up anything from:

  • Surprised looks—say what?
  • To a “what are you doing here?”
  • And the occasional “oh that’s interesting, tell me more.”

Some people ask me what I really do with my time…What’s my real job, they ask. (And I love responding that I run a successful company!)
I used to want to fit in, but now, I have thankfully chosen to take the authentic high road, a choice that supports you in creating your best relationship.

Here’s why:

  • A huge part of how I approach relationships has to do with the healing aspect of it all
  • See, if you are not in your best relationship now (and if you want to be) you cannot manifest one until you connect with why you currently do not have one now
  • Diving deep into the healing aspects of transforming a current relationship or crafting a new relationship is empowering
  • Being conscious, aware, and empowered is passionate and sexy combination!! (Passionate and sexy attracts passionate and sexy!)

Will you accept my invitation to allow me to support you in this healing process by attending a free virtual event that I am giving?

What: Soul-Level Healing for Your Broken Heart, a free virtual event where I will be giving mini readings, coaching, and offering support on healing and having your best relationship.

When: Tomorrow, Wednesday May 18, 2016 at 2 PM Central

Where: The internet, more specifically on social media platform called Blab im.

How: This is just a tad complicated, but definitely not impossible.

  1. Get a Twitter account at https://twitter.com/.
  2. Head over to https://blab.im/ and get a Blab account.
  3. When you are in your Blab account, type my name “laurenkaywyatt” into the search-bar. From there, will see my name and picture pop up.
  4. Click on my picture, click on my scheduled Blabs, click on “Q&A: Soul-level Healing for Your Broken Heart” and then SUBSCRIBE to the event!

If you require assistance in attending the event, let me know. I am definitely not the most technologically savvy of people, but I will help you get there.

If you want to receive a reading or be coached, contact me here and let me know your particular situation.

Please share this event and the “directions to the party” with your friends.

Love Renegade Blessings,
Lauren

Ask Lauren: How can I help my partner?

Last week a beautiful soul asked me the following question:

My partner is afraid of intimacy and wants help from me. How can I help him?

This is a question that I have received many times in many different forms. The answer I give may surprise you.

If you are someone who loves helping other people, someone who is a natural problem-solver, or a fixer, then watch this video.

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Do you have a question for me?  You can submit your question here.

Are you choosing love or fear?

Have you heard the expression that you can’t find love until you love yourself? How do you feel about that saying?

I believe that while there is some truth to this well-known saying, the underlying wisdom of the popular self-love concept has been neglected.

To shed some light, I created a video for you to explore the concept of self-love through what it is NOT and how to make love-based choices to experience your best relationships and results that you love.

Watch the video by clicking here

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Living Courageously

Have you ever had one of those moments where you made a big choice?

This is the type of choice where you can seriously feel your heart thudding against your chest.

This is what courage feels like.

When was the last time you were courageous? Was it standing up to someone? Was it making a bold move? Was it giving yourself something that you really, really desired?
There are three distinctly courageous choices that have shaped my life to be what it is today. Here they are in no particular order:

  • Coming out of the psychic/healer closet
  • One was committing to and marrying my husband, Daniel
  • Becoming vegan

I even made a video where I go into a little more detail on how these choices altered the course of my life.

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When you make a choice that is authentic to your heart’s desire and to your soul’s truth:

  • You become more and more irresistible.
  • You allow a part of you to become unearthed and align more and more fully to who you really are and what you desire.
  • You stop caring about what other people think.
  • You start aligning more and more to love.

To courageously follow your heart is an act of love.

Courage leads to love. Love creates love. Love is irresistible.

Sending a hug and blessings of courage!