Dismantle the Soulmate Myth, Reclaim Your Love Life

If your love life frustrates you, you are not alone.  Many highly conscious people struggle to find joy in their relationships.

At first things appear to progress. We find someone we like.  We get inspired by a new approach to dating.  We may even find ourselves in a relationship.

And then, tragedy strikes.

We experience heartbreak or loss in our new relationship.  We get bored with the dating process.  We just can’t seem to get it right.  We feel like we just do not have the energy for this. We are done wasting our precious energy on rejection.

And yet…a part of us still daydreams about our best relationship and future significant other.  We imagine ourselves on a romantic vacation.  We fantasize about co-manifesting with someone who is at our level. We snuggle up in delicious thoughts of being unconditionally loved, supported, and adored by a beautiful human being.

Sound familiar?  Maybe it’s time to shake things up.

First, you must become aware of the energetic reasons behind why you attract what you attract in your love life. One way to do this as to look at your beliefs.

What do I believe to be true about love and relationships? (What strong opinions do I uphold about romantic love?)

Is what I accept as to be true a universal truth?

Are my beliefs serving me in having a relationship that I love?

To assist you further, I am going to give an example of a love myth that I uncovered on my path to creating my best relationship.  This love myth is a part of the belief systems of many highly conscious people.

It’s the soulmate love myth.

A myth is something that we think is true, when in reality, nothing could be further from the truth.  A love myth is an aspect of an illusion.

As a Love Renegade, we work to dismantle untruths, myths, and illusions—laws of love—that are keeping you stuck in your love life.

We when we do this, we are empowered to break free, heal our hearts, and reclaim our romantic relationships!

Watch these three videos to discover the ins and outs of the soulmate love myth and how it negatively impacts your relationships and other life areas.




You are the catalyst of change. 

With Love & Gratitude,


Prince Charming’s Rescue Mission

Are you a fan of fairytales?

What about romantic comedies and classic love stories?

As a child, I loved fairy tales.  The magic, the adventure, the beauty…and of course, the romance.

Couple kissing under umbrella at the beach in sunset. Photo in old image style.

As an adult, I still enjoy the occasional romantic comedy. And a good love story will always tug at my heart and leave me daydreaming for days.

But perhaps you are on the opposite end of the spectrum?

Do these stories cause you to roll your eyes and run the other way?

If so, I completely understand.

Life is tough.

Being a human being is not always fair.  We do not always get our happy ending.

Honestly, I used to feel like I was caught between two worlds.  One world—the world of my dreams—had magic and happily-ever-after.

The other world—the real world—had qualities of settling and disappointment.

I would flip from either end of the spectrum.

I was utterly exhausted and my well-being and relationships really suffered.

The catalyst of change in my love life happened when I dared to break the laws of love.

Word of warning…

Some of what I say may not resonate with you.  My teachings may challenge beliefs that are holding you hostage in your love life and relationships.

As a Love Renegade, I am here to shed light on illusions that are holding you hostage in your love life so that you can have your very best relationship.

This brings me to the subject of soulmates.

Last week we talked about what really happens energetically when you go to look for a soulmate.

This week, I am taking the soulmate subject a step further.  Let’s call this video, Prince’s Charming’s Rescue Mission.

Watch the latest video here:

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