by lauren | Feb 23, 2021 | dating advice for empaths, dating advice for highly sensitive people, empath heart healing, empaths in love, empaths in relationships, Healing Negative Emotions, intimacy, love relationship consciousness, Powerful Heart Healing, relationship challenges, self-love in relationships, spiritual relationship advice for women
Are you an empath? In 2015 I made a video on my YouTube channel—back when I called my business Bee Loving Bee Wise, owned the title of Love Psychic, and for the most part, did not include my middle name when introducing myself. To my surprise I saw that this video has almost 4.5K views!! I had no idea the impact the video would make. Although I do not often use the word “empath” it is very much a part of my life and the lives of my clients. Being an empath in relationships or an empath in dating definitely has its own set of challenges. Over the years I have worked with clients on using their high sensitivity and empathy to their advantage while dating and within their relationships.
If you are an empath, highly intuitive sensitive person, please know that I am devoted to serving you in having incredible relationships and enjoying your life fully and completely.
Watch my video from 2015 here===>https://youtu.be/6DM8aijQkTA
Sending you so much love!
Find a slightly modified transcription of the video below 👇 👇 👇
Are you an empath? An empath is someone who is beautifully sensitive and can really feel the emotions of someone else. This is a really beautiful and sacred gift. The thing is sometimes empaths will take on other peoples’ energies and emotions and the energy of the room. They will do it like it is their own.
When an empath is in a romantic or intimate relationship or when an empath is on the dating scene—it is usually a different experience for this type of person—because this person is very much feeling the other person’s emotions, the other person’s energy, and the other person’s stuff. If they are at a party with a lot of people, they are going to feel that as well.
So let’s say that you [as an empath are] feeling great and you go to an event and you are excited to meet people. Sure, you might be a bit nervous—totally normal—but when you initially agreed to go to the event or go on the date, you felt good about it! And then you went to the event or date, you felt kind of weird, a bit uncomfortable, and kind of slimed. Maybe you even felt sick or felt like crying. Maybe this experience did not make sense! Maybe you felt like it was you! Or, maybe you are an empath who really absorbed and felt the collective energy of the room or you were just so tuned in to the other person’s stuff!
Now, I am in NO WAY saying that you should not leave the house or that you are this person who has this horrible affliction and that there is nothing that can be done about it. No! I am not saying that at all.
The truth is you can still have amazing fulfilling relationships where you are receiving love and appreciation from the other person and you are giving love and appreciation to the other person. All of this is highly possible. What it takes is for you to know what you want, be aware of how you are feeling, and to realize, “hey, maybe all this heavy energy that I am feeling isn’t mine.”
So anyway, I am an empath too and this is something that I have had to deal with in my dating life, relationship life, married life, and in being a somewhat social person in general…During a home yoga practice, the most beautiful message came through to me and I had to stop my yoga practice because all I wanted to do was just get this message out so that I could share it with you. I call this the Empath’s Creed.
Even though I feel the pain of the world. Every insecurity. Every worry. Every bill unpaid. Every judgement. Every instance of a lack of trust.Each betrayal. Every expectation that was never and could never be met. I remember that I have a choice. I can choose to believe and buy into that humanity has fallen. I can choose to believe that I am insignificant and that I don’t matter. Or instead, I can choose to remember who I am and what I stand for. I am profoundly grateful. I AM GRATITUDE. Even at my darkest moment, I choose love. This does mean that I have to like everyone or allow myself to be treated badly. What it does mean is that each moment allows an opportunity. An opportunity for love. An opportunity for change. And an opportunity to choose.
So from my heart to your heart—may your day be filled with love and gratitude. When you are with your special someone, significant other, friends, [or] you are on a date with someone you have not met, you are at a networking event, or party at someone’s house—whatever it is: remember how you are feeling, how you are being, and that you have a choice. You matter.
by lauren | Feb 11, 2021 | Uncategorized
Up until now, I have not really been one to celebrate Valentine’s Day. Really, I think I may have been a little judgmental and arrogant—which is kind of embarrassing to admit because I have loads of empathy and coach people in love and relationships. My reasoning was that it did not make sense to me that so many wonderful people were giving their power away to a “silly” holiday.
Now, I realize that my arrogance was my way of protecting my empath heart from feeling the deep gaping heart wound of the Collective.
As much as I tried to shield my heart from feeling this pain, it still persisted, constantly knocking on my door to be of assistance. It felt too overwhelming until one day I decided to just let myself feel it. Courage is the vehicle of Love, right?
Here is what I know is true…
We are collectively hurting. Each one of us yearns to love and be loved. Each one of us has the opportunity to heal.
Although what I am about to say may sound radical and outlandish, I genuinely believe that the more we choose love and healing, the more we contribute to the Collective’s healing.
This means that the pain you feel from that divorce or that break up with a friend or that business deal that fell through—no matter how big or small or present that pain is—by healing it, you acknowledge your own power and set yourself free.
This means that all of the annoying things you experience in your relationships, within your dating process, etc— all of those things are your soul’s way of calling your attention to healing and liberating the love within you.
By healing these things, you contribute to healing the collective wound. In other words, your healing may inspire someone you do not even know to heal. This creates a cosmic healing ripple that benefits humanity, our planet, and collective spiritual growth.
That is the motivation behind this Valentine’s Day-inspired Special. I call it a Love Liberation Session, a private 30 minute intuitive healing and coaching session where you will:
- Receive clarity on liberating the love within and around you!
- Pave the way for you to have amazing experiences in your relationships!
- Get to the root of all of the emotional, spiritual, and psychic gunk that is clogging up the love and healing within you!
In honor of Valentine’s Day and in the name of Love and Healing, I am doing this for half of the price of my normal rate!! So exciting, right?! This means that instead of $297, it is $147.)
You can make your purchase here.
You can read more here on my website.
Thank you for reading. It is a deep honor to assist you in healing and to provide you with wisdom that supports you in letting love lead the way, in your relationships and life.
by lauren | Feb 10, 2021 | creating intimacy, dating advice for empaths, dating advice for highly sensitive people, deepening with partner, empath heart healing, empaths in love, empaths in relationships, Empowerment from Relationship Trauma, Empowerment in relationships, fear of intimacy, love relationship consciousness, Powerful Heart Healing, self-love in relationships, spiritual relationship advice for women, Uncategorized
Watch the video here: https://youtu.be/UKHPXFckIjw
**A slightly modified transcription is given below. Please know that the healing transmission of this video does not come out as fully from the transcription.**
Today we are shedding light on the Illusion of Control, the first of the Illusions of Relationship™. Just like what its name feels and and sounds like, really creates contraction with control.
The control can be aggressive such actively and obviously trying to control other people. The control can look covert as well.
Either way, you want to control the future by wanting to know exactly what is going to happen and when it is going to happen. This Illusion of Relationship™ really takes you away from your heart and it throws you out of sync with Love by its relentless need to control. This is micromanaging of the creative process of the heart chakra.
For people who have the Illusion of Control as their main Illusion of Relationship™, the best advice is to you is to work on opening your heart and trusting Life. Being authentic and vulnerable is a huge part of this as well—doing this in a powerful honest way—where you can put it out there to the Universe (as an intention) and really attract people into your life who can be safely be your soft side with and who is safe to let your guard down with.
This allows Love to lead the way.
You are invited to reflect on this message with the following questions:
1.) In what ways do I seek and exhibit control in my relationships?
2.) How do I try to control myself and others?
3.) What might happen if I followed the advice given to me in the video?
by lauren | Jan 26, 2021 | Uncategorized
Watch the video here ===> https://youtu.be/Hmzz830_TsM
Read the modified transcription below ❤️ 👇🏼
I am Lauren Kay Wyatt. I am the creator of Love Renegades. I am so excited to connect with you today! Today, I want to shed light on the Illusions of Relationship™ so that you can have MORE LOVE—on your terms—so that you can—enjoy your relationships—your romantic relationships, the relationship you have with yourself, with the Divine, with the people in your life, and how you relate to the different challenges and themes that life can kind of throw at you.
So the six Illusions of Relationship™ are all patterns of illusion that separate you from Love. Each of the Illusions of Relationship™ has its own unique way of putting you under the influence of an illusion, a false truth that keeps you in tunnel vision and acting from a place of fear!
This is what an illusion does! When you are coming from a fear-based place, it is inevitable that you will create what you do not want—in your relationships, your life, and within yourself!
Now, instead of staying stuck in patterns of frustration, anger, bitterness, disappointment—all of that—there is a way out! There is an opportunity to connect with your heart, with your Soul, with your most Divine Self—this next level of YOU—also known as you inner Love Renegade—by breaking free of the Illusions of Relationship™!
When we look at things from the perspective of the Illusions of Relationship™, we see things from an elevated viewpoint where are empowered to say, think, and feel “Ohhh, that’s what’s happening! I see it now! I am going to make a new choice!” The six Illusions of Relationship™ are listed as follows:
- Illusion of Control
- Illusion of Sacrifice
- Illusion of Drama
- Illusion of Perfection
- Illusion of Absorption
- Illusion of Satisfaction
If you are curious which one of these Illusions that your soul would like for you to notice so that you can break free—take our free online quiz, which you can find right here on our website! I will be in touch with more videos and resources about each Illusion of Relationship™.
by lauren | Jan 1, 2021 | dealing with drama, Healing Negative Emotions, Powerful Heart Healing, Relationships, success
Hope is a powerful energy, that when used in its highest and purest form, can help you heal and transform! With hope, you can create, receive, and attract higher levels of Love in your life and relationships. Amazing right?
But when “false hope” is applied—or when hope is dismissed as something meaningless and unimportant—this wonderful healing opportunity can go to waste.
By watching this video, you will connect with your heart’s wisdom and gain an understanding of genuine hope and how you can apply it to your life and relationships on an ongoing basis so that you can experience more love, joy, and freedom.
Watch it here====> https://youtu.be/oNdSP8vUNVU
