How do you push love away? Most of us cannot stand being seen as our full selves. To protect ourselves, we push love and intimacy away. This is one way the Illusion of Absorption, one of the Illusions of Relationship™, causes havoc in our lives.
In this video, Lauren of Love Renegades goes deep into how the Illusion of Absorption stops you from experiencing the love that you desire. Watch it here===> https://youtu.be/N1iUQ7thnTE
It does not matter if you are single or coupled up, you are in relationship. You are in relationship with yourself and you relate to everything in your life. In this specific post, we will explore your relationship with drama. We do this to identify and break free of the Illusion of Drama, one of the Illusions of Relationship™.
Explore the Illusion of Drama and your relationship with drama in this video from the Love Renegades YouTube channel here===> https://youtu.be/z5MxZ9xirJk
One of the biggest fears that many of us share is the fear of being humiliated. It is really what causes us to hold back our Divine light and lead authentic lives. This is a part of the Illusion of Perfection, one of the Illusions of Relationship that causes you to choose safety and self-preservation over self-love and living your full potential.
Watch this video on the Love Renegades YouTube channel about the Fear of Humiliation here: https://youtu.be/PHzYWD3zYFw
You and someone you care about have not spoken in months. You want so badly to reconnect and yet…you don’t. You have so much to share but the timing is not quite right.
This is not an issue of perfection. This is what I call a “choice of permission.” All too often we do not give ourselves permission to do what we want to do. Instead, we continue to do what we have been doing or we choose to do what we are told to do.
As the leader of our movement, Love Renegades, I gave myself permission to temporarily remove myself from “business as usual.” In that choice I stood with my heart’s truth, replenished with the Divine, and focused on my sacred relationships.
This, sweet ones, is the reason I have been absent for the last few months.
Instead of keeping up appearances with social media and marketing and doing what I was “supposed to do,” I acknowledged my heart’s longing for something else. Something new, different, and unknown—that at the time, had not yet revealed itself to me.
In an effort to understand my heart’s message, I chose Love where I dove deeply into service mode with clients and focused on the three relationships I care about the most:
My relationship with the Divine
My relationship with my Self
My relationship with husband, Daniel
This decision of choosing Love and these sacred relationships led to a series of events that would take me on a spiritual pilgrimage throughout India in early 2020 and would ultimately lead me to relocating to Hawaii with my husband, Daniel—and in the middle of a pandemic.
In this time of global calamity, I am acutely aware of how powerful our choices are. I see the polarity of love and fear clearly. I am choosing Love.
My loving intention to reach out to you today was to reconnect with you—to remind you of your heart’s wisdom and the power that comes from making a choice.
And I am doing something I have not done in years! Over the next two weeks I have chosen to open up my calendar to support you in reconnecting with your heart and choosing Love.
When you master rejection you master life. If you are feeling hurt and limited by rejection or the fear of rejection please watch this video I made for you.
Unconditional love is a beautiful ideal that some people [unfortunately] choose to abuse. Watch this video for insight into the negative waves that people use the ideal of unconditional love to hurt, manipulate, and control others. The content in this video teaches you what to look out for so that you can tap into your inner love renegade, break the laws of relationship™, and release those people from your life. Watch it here====>https://youtu.be/Q-wVEb9ISKs