by Lauren Kay Wyatt | Apr 27, 2021 | Uncategorized
How many times have you spoken your truth, only to be on the receiving end of someone’s wrath? Maybe you have experienced it with family? Maybe during a break up or a fight?
Whatever it is, know this: The Illusion of Drama is at play! This is the Illusion of Relationship™ that affects us most in the areas of emotions, feelings, and change.
Let’s dive deeper into understanding the Illusion of Drama by shedding light on expectations, one of the biggest culprits in creating unnecessary drama! See, most people go into relationships with expectations. It is human nature to desire certain things!
One of these expectations, for instance, is that the man “should” pay for dinner. Yes, it is nice to be treated to dinner but expecting something puts a whole lot of unnecessary pressure on the date, which can lead to assumptions and drama!
Another way that expectation creeps its way into a committed relationship is when one partner feels that the other should be responsible for all of their emotional needs. This where the drama really kicks in!!
Imagine you are in an intense emotional state. You expect your partner to react to you in a certain way. Whether you are seeking comfort, affirmation, or validation—your partner does not give you what you want! Maybe your partner even sets boundaries with you about it. Maybe you perceive this as rejection and just become angrier and angrier!
Let’s look at the other side of this dramatic interaction…
A person you care about is experiencing intense emotions and a part of you is afraid. You tried to fix the situation and found out they were not looking for solutions! Now you feel unappreciated. At this point you might see the person as inconsolable. Whatever it is— the emotional energy is too intense for you! You are now in survival mode, and truly believe you need to run for cover. So you yell that you need to be left alone…or you just shut down.
Does any of that sound familiar? If so, what do you do? You could complain to your friends—-feeding into the drama! You could vilify your partner—-creating a whole other level of drama…Or you could break free of the Illusion of Drama.
If you have not yet watched the Illusion of Drama video or if you need a quick reminder, watch it here: https://youtu.be/EL1lsxJc4xw
If you are in the middle of high emotion and drama, I offer you empathy and a gentle reminder that you have a choice. You can free yourself from the drama in a way that supports your personal growth and relationships.
Here are a couple of healing resources:
Video-“How to Stop Feeling Angry, Resentful and Hurt”- https://youtu.be/938jZkACgUA
Invitation- Connect with me one-on-one in a free consult- https://laurenkaywyatt.com/apply-renegade-session/
I will be in touch soon with more information on how you can break free from the Illusion of Drama. We will also be starting our adventure into the Illusion of Perfection soon.
by Lauren Kay Wyatt | Apr 12, 2021 | creating intimacy, dating advice for empaths, dating advice for highly sensitive people, dealing with drama, deepening with partner, drama, empath heart healing, empaths in love, empaths in relationships, Empowerment from Relationship Trauma, fear of intimacy, Free spirit in relationship, Healing Negative Emotions, relationship challenges, Relationships, self-love in relationships, spiritual relationship advice for women, Uncategorized
Hello, Drama, My Old Friend! When Drama arrives in your life, it could mean that you in the middle of the manifestation process and in the middle of creating real lasting change! OR it can mean that you are under the influence of the Illusion of Drama, one of the Illusions of Relationship™ that pushes love away from you with a misuse of the powerful energy of Drama!
Watch our latest video and receive the healing transmission here==> https://youtu.be/EL1lsxJc4xwhttps://youtu.be/EL1lsxJc4xw
Read the transcript below 👇 👇 👇
Today I want to connect with you about the Illusion of Drama. The Illusion of Drama is the third of our Illusions of Relationship™ System that disconnects you from your heart and separates you from Love with a lot of drama, with a lot of distraction.
When we are caught into the Illusion of Drama, it is usually when things are so chaotic and busy, and when there is a lot of conflict within and relationship dynamics and within ourselves. When that is happening it is really important for you to tune in and to really be aware of how you can be the most authentic.
Are you emoting and creating drama for drama’s sake? Are you talking about your problems so that you can get attention? Or are you on the verge of a big empowerment opportunity and healing breakthrough in your life and your life is simply aligning to create that.
Drama is a part of the transformation and healing process and it is really important during this time that you go into it with a loving open heart, with a commitment to being authentic, and to step into your transformation with clarity and with a knowing that it is all working out in your favor.
Are you caught in the Illusion of Drama? Want to find out for sure? Take the free Quiz and find out which Illusion of Relationship™ is influencing you here: https://laurenkaywyatt.com/quiz/
Want to go deep and receive empowered support? Contact lauren at love renegades dot com and request a free session.
Sending you blessings!
by Lauren Kay Wyatt | Mar 24, 2021 | boundaries, creating intimacy, dating advice for empaths, dating advice for highly sensitive people, dealing with drama, deepening with partner, empath heart healing, Empowerment in relationships, fear of intimacy, forgiveness, Free spirit in relationship, Healing Negative Emotions, intimacy, love relationship consciousness, relationship challenges, self-love in relationships, spiritual relationship advice for women, Uncategorized
When it comes to relationships, the subject of forgiveness becomes inevitable. If you are anything like my clients and me, you have mixed feelings or strong emotions around forgiveness. If someone still has your power, as in they are living in your head rent-free, then it might be time to forgive—or at the very least explore the subject of forgiveness. To support you with this, I created a Love Renegades Forgiveness Series. Watch part one called “The Annoying Thing about Forgiveness” here and feel empowered about your next healing steps:
Watch here on my YouTube Channel 👉 https://youtu.be/dYElv3hoBv0
Of course, you can read the description below but the video is more fun and it contains a special healing transmission for you. 👇
Hi Beautiful. Today let’s talk about why it is so hard to forgive. Wow. You know forgiveness really used to be a concept that annoyed me. I thought “why in the world would I forgive someone who has hurt me and caused me problems? Why even waste time thinking of the other person? Why give them my energy?” Why, why, why??
Then one day, I realized that as much as I did not want to forgive them or think about them, they were still creepin’ their way into my heart and experience. When I realized that my thoughts and in a word way that these people had some power over me, that was when I was like , “no, no, no. It is time to gt in touch with my inner Love Renegade and let this go.”
So right now you might be upset with somebody and harbor lots of feelings of hurt. You may have been betrayed. Someone may have treated you in a mean or maybe even abusive way. Forgiveness doesn’t mean that you need to be in a relationship with that person or that there needs to be a happy resolution.
No it means it is about freeing yourself so that you can allow more Love to come to you. So that you can feel better within yourself, your experience, and within your relationships. This really supports you in attracting and manifesting circumstances and relationship that reflect what you ultimately consciously desire, which is love and to be loved
Thank you for spending time with me.
by Lauren Kay Wyatt | Mar 2, 2021 | dating advice for empaths, dating advice for highly sensitive people, dealing with drama, deepening with partner, empath heart healing, empaths in love, empaths in relationships, Empowerment from Relationship Trauma, Empowerment in relationships, fear of intimacy, love relationship consciousness, relationship challenges, self-love in relationships, spiritual relationship advice for women, Uncategorized
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Watch the video here 👉 https://youtu.be/tZoU5q6esZA
Or read the transcription below…which is fine but you may not fully receive all of the love that is available to you in this healing transmission if you only read about it 👇 👇 👇
Hi, I am Lauren Kay Wyatt. I am an Intuitive Coach, the founder of Love Renegades, and the Creator of the Illusions of Relationship™ system.
Today I want to connect with you about the Illusion of Sacrifice. The Illusion of Sacrifice is one of the Illusions of Relationship that causes you to disconnect from your own needs and to be completely tuned into the people around you. For example, you would intuit your partner’s needs, your friends needs, your children’s needs, but that you would be completely disconnected when it comes to your own needs.
While it is a beautiful thing to be so caring and loving and while it is a super power to know other people’s needs, the dysfunctional side of it is being codependent and to really expect other people to give you what you give them–when one of your super powers is giving.
So what will really support you in breaking free of the Illusion of Sacrifice is making a commitment to connect with your own heart and to treat yourself the way that you treat other people by tending to your own needs.
Now this may take some deep self-reflective work that might feel kind of scary. I encourage you to be courageous. At Love Renegades we say Courage is the Vehicle of Love. I encourage you to really go for it.
Go for it in getting to know yourself and in getting to love yourself. Explore those shadows so that you can break free and be free and so that other people will love you the way that you love them and so that you can even have a higher level of that ideal.
by Lauren Kay Wyatt | Feb 11, 2021 | Uncategorized
Up until now, I have not really been one to celebrate Valentine’s Day. Really, I think I may have been a little judgmental and arrogant—which is kind of embarrassing to admit because I have loads of empathy and coach people in love and relationships. My reasoning was that it did not make sense to me that so many wonderful people were giving their power away to a “silly” holiday.
Now, I realize that my arrogance was my way of protecting my empath heart from feeling the deep gaping heart wound of the Collective.
As much as I tried to shield my heart from feeling this pain, it still persisted, constantly knocking on my door to be of assistance. It felt too overwhelming until one day I decided to just let myself feel it. Courage is the vehicle of Love, right?
Here is what I know is true…
We are collectively hurting. Each one of us yearns to love and be loved. Each one of us has the opportunity to heal.
Although what I am about to say may sound radical and outlandish, I genuinely believe that the more we choose love and healing, the more we contribute to the Collective’s healing.
This means that the pain you feel from that divorce or that break up with a friend or that business deal that fell through—no matter how big or small or present that pain is—by healing it, you acknowledge your own power and set yourself free.
This means that all of the annoying things you experience in your relationships, within your dating process, etc— all of those things are your soul’s way of calling your attention to healing and liberating the love within you.
By healing these things, you contribute to healing the collective wound. In other words, your healing may inspire someone you do not even know to heal. This creates a cosmic healing ripple that benefits humanity, our planet, and collective spiritual growth.
That is the motivation behind this Valentine’s Day-inspired Special. I call it a Love Liberation Session, a private 30 minute intuitive healing and coaching session where you will:
- Receive clarity on liberating the love within and around you!
- Pave the way for you to have amazing experiences in your relationships!
- Get to the root of all of the emotional, spiritual, and psychic gunk that is clogging up the love and healing within you!
In honor of Valentine’s Day and in the name of Love and Healing, I am doing this for half of the price of my normal rate!! So exciting, right?! This means that instead of $297, it is $147.)
You can make your purchase here.
You can read more here on my website.
Thank you for reading. It is a deep honor to assist you in healing and to provide you with wisdom that supports you in letting love lead the way, in your relationships and life.
by Lauren Kay Wyatt | Feb 10, 2021 | creating intimacy, dating advice for empaths, dating advice for highly sensitive people, deepening with partner, empath heart healing, empaths in love, empaths in relationships, Empowerment from Relationship Trauma, Empowerment in relationships, fear of intimacy, love relationship consciousness, Powerful Heart Healing, self-love in relationships, spiritual relationship advice for women, Uncategorized
Watch the video here: https://youtu.be/UKHPXFckIjw
**A slightly modified transcription is given below. Please know that the healing transmission of this video does not come out as fully from the transcription.**
Today we are shedding light on the Illusion of Control, the first of the Illusions of Relationship™. Just like what its name feels and and sounds like, really creates contraction with control.
The control can be aggressive such actively and obviously trying to control other people. The control can look covert as well.
Either way, you want to control the future by wanting to know exactly what is going to happen and when it is going to happen. This Illusion of Relationship™ really takes you away from your heart and it throws you out of sync with Love by its relentless need to control. This is micromanaging of the creative process of the heart chakra.
For people who have the Illusion of Control as their main Illusion of Relationship™, the best advice is to you is to work on opening your heart and trusting Life. Being authentic and vulnerable is a huge part of this as well—doing this in a powerful honest way—where you can put it out there to the Universe (as an intention) and really attract people into your life who can be safely be your soft side with and who is safe to let your guard down with.
This allows Love to lead the way.
You are invited to reflect on this message with the following questions:
1.) In what ways do I seek and exhibit control in my relationships?
2.) How do I try to control myself and others?
3.) What might happen if I followed the advice given to me in the video?
