When you master rejection, you master life

“When you master rejection, you master life.”

To elaborate, I made a short video for you. Watch it here: https://youtu.be/YjHsCDUCTzI

If you have any feedback or questions, please reach out.

I truly love hearing from you.

From My Heart to Yours,

Lauren

Guidelines for the Revolt For Love: The Revolution Community

WELCOME TO THE REVOLT FOR LOVE: THE LOVE REVOLUTION!

Ready to create your own personal Love Revolution and your own Universal Love Story? Welcome home!

This is a heart-centered community for insightful and intelligent people who feel drawn to choosing LOVE over fear and contributing to making our world a more loving place. This is a really tall order!! We will use this group to ban together as we look within ourselves, make wise choices, and create LOVE through our relationships—-especially within ourselves and our intimate partnerships!

Get started with my free mind map to help you Break the Laws of Love! You can get your own copy in our free Community here: https://bit.ly/2HwiUtT

Then introduce yourself to the group in a new post. Lurking may feel more comfortable, but letting others know that you exist is a practical way for you to make friends and LET LOVE LEAD THE WAY!

Let us know a little about who you are!! Tell us the following:

-Name and Occupation/Passion

-Where you live and what city you are from.

-What show you are currently watching or recommend? (If you aren’t into TV, let us know about movies, books, music that you are into! )

-BONUS QUESTION– What drives you to choose love over fear? (That how we #revoltforlove!)

Make new friends, reconnect with old ones, and comment on each other’s posts!!

Use this group to share what inspires you and opens your heart and PLEASE let us know why you are sharing it with us!  (In other words, don’t just drop a link or a meme! Let us know what you think or feel about what you are sharing!! In other words, share yourself with us!)

We are Love Renegades.  As Love Renegades, we are not so much about rules, but we do our best to practice common sense. Here are my common sense guidelines:

-DO NOT be a jerk and attack anyone for having different views than you. Disagreements are OK. Passionate conversations are encouraged. Bullies will NOT BE TOLERATED and they will be OUSTED from the group!

-DO NOT spam the group with ads.

Make friends, support one another, ask questions, share your insights and what inspires you! Topics on love, manifesting your dream relationship, enhancing the relationship you are already in, and heart-healing are welcome here!

I’ll be answering questions, sharing insights, facilitating discussions, and guiding you on how to create your own personal Love Revolution and Universal Love Story!

I am SO excited to help you REVOLT FOR LOVE! ❤️

Love,

Lauren

Do you have trust issues? (part 1)

I know it has been a while since we have connected. Truthfully, I have been in deep reflection. Even though I love my contemplation, I genuinely missed connecting with you! I did not reach out because I did not really have anything to say, but now I have something to share with you…It’s about trust. More specifically, self-trust, that sometimes elusive treasure that some of us never find.

Before I go any further, I want to disclose something. Trust—-particularly self-trust—has notoriously been a big deal for me. I used to be someone who was petrified of making a mistake. I used to be someone who was reluctant to move forward without proof. I used to check in with other people about what decisions I “should” make. These choices went right along with who was “safe” to love and what I needed to do to keep myself from being hurt.

Why did I do this?   Well, being a psychic little kid, I had a very *different* perception of what was going on. I would see things—-fairies, spirits, scary things, colors around people. I would know things—-things I was not supposed to know and did not know I was not supposed to know. I would feel people’s feelings in my body. I did not know what to make of my experiences, but one thing I knew for sure was that it was NOT what my family and friends were experiencing. I decided that I was wrong and I wanted to keep my perceptions a secret.  I was successful at this for many, many years…Until I wasn’t.

I will get into all of that another time, but for now: doesn’t it make sense why I would not trust myself?  After all, I had no external support or validation and I decided from a very young age that my experiences were wrong. This choice allowed me to constantly give my power away to other people—-my power away to my lovers, my friends, my family, and any authority figure.  Looking back, it was what was normal, but now living in that reality would be a perfectly self-created hell.

Ever since I chose to trust myself, I began to listen to myself intently. I saw that much of what I perceived was not the norm.  Instead of getting discouraged as I did as a small child and again as a person with low self-esteem, I now see that my unconventional way of seeing things—-not just seeing ghosts and auras—-is what really allows me to serve other people. Here is what I have found to be true about trust:

  • Trust has nothing to do with guarantees and trust comes with a different type of certainty.
  • Trust has nothing to do with whether or not things will go “according to plan.”
  • Trust is complete liberation and ownership of my life, my intentions, and my manifestations.

For me,  trust is about accepting my own inner wisdom, stating my intention, and moving forward with an open heart.

Have you ever wondered what your life and what your relationships would be like if you trusted yourself completely? What would you do more or less of?

we are all connected

we are all connected

“The person you hate is actually an aspect of yourself that you hate.” 

I was with one of my spiritual mentors. The words that altered my entire world were spoken by her teacher.

At the time I was dealing with a lot of strong emotions. I felt that someone I loved was being treated horribly. I felt very angry. The situation seemed hopeless. I was very much consumed with a problem that did not directly affect me.

Those wise words got my attention. From that moment forth, I realized that if I did not start treating myself better—-how could I expect anyone to treat me or anyone I loved better?

All of us are connected.

The person you carry feelings of contempt or hatred toward represent a part of you in some form or another. And likewise, a person you love and admire represents traits that are either dormant or ignited within yourself.

Instead of judging your opinions or thoughts of another person, I invite you to love yourself and embrace the healing opportunity that this other person has brought forth for you.

The one-ness concept is a driving force in my newest project called “The Universal Love Story,” a video series that documents the lives of six people who courageously open their hearts to love and to the joyful creation of relationships and outcomes that reflect their heart’s desire.

If you are able to re-write your own personal love story and change the course of your life, then you play a role in the collective healing of “The Universal Love Story.”

That’s how powerful you are!

Take a moment to watch the teaser for “The Universal Love Story” and if you feel so moved, subscribe and share it with your friends!

https://youtu.be/CiuW5uKc51k

See you soon!

Love,

Lauren