In most personal and spiritual development communities, we are told to stop complaining. This makes perfect sense as focusing on what we do not want is draining as it takes our energy away from what we would ultimately like. (Law of attraction, right?)

Yet on the other side of this, I feel like we do ourselves a disservice when we do not allow ourselves to complain. By complaining, I do not mean sucking all of the energy out of the room as you vent to anyone who will listen and giving thousands of excuses related to why you cannot have what you desire. That is SO exhausting! 🙂

What I do mean is if you are productive with your complaining, you can use it to your advantage. Let me explain.

If you are frustrated with your love life or relationship, you are experiencing negative relationship karma. In the video below, I outline how you can apply what we ordinarily think of as complaining to heal your negative relationship karma.

Take a peak in the video that I made just for you! 🙂


Does anything about what I shared in the video ignite you?  Is there another video that you would like for me to make? Leave a comment and let me know. 🙂