Brief Intro to the Illusions of Relationship™

by | Jan 26, 2021 | Uncategorized

 

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I am Lauren Kay Wyatt. I am the creator of Love Renegades.  I am so excited to connect with you today! Today, I want to shed light on the Illusions of Relationship™ so that you can have MORE LOVE—on your terms—so that you can—enjoy your relationships—your romantic relationships, the relationship you have with yourself, with the Divine, with the people in your life, and how you relate to the different challenges and themes that life can kind of throw at you.

So the six Illusions of Relationship™ are all patterns of illusion that separate you from Love. Each of the Illusions of Relationship™ has its own unique way of putting you under the influence of an illusion, a false truth that keeps you in tunnel vision and acting from a place of fear!

This is what an illusion does!  When you are coming from a fear-based place, it is inevitable that you will create what you do not want—in your relationships, your life, and within yourself!

Now, instead of staying stuck in patterns of frustration, anger, bitterness, disappointment—all of that—there is a way out! There is an opportunity to connect with your heart, with your Soul, with your most Divine Self—this next level of YOU—also known as you inner Love Renegade—by breaking free of the Illusions of Relationship™!

When we look at things from the perspective of the Illusions of Relationship™, we see things from an elevated viewpoint where are empowered to say, think, and feel “Ohhh, that’s what’s happening! I see it now! I am going to make a new choice!”  The six Illusions of Relationship™ are listed as follows:

  • Illusion of Control
  • Illusion of Sacrifice
  • Illusion of Drama
  • Illusion of Perfection
  • Illusion of Absorption
  • Illusion of Satisfaction

If you are curious which one of these Illusions that your soul would like for you to notice so that you can break free—take our free online quiz, which you can find right here on our website! I will be in touch with more videos and resources about each Illusion of Relationship™.  

Healing with Hope

by | Jan 1, 2021 | dealing with drama, Healing Negative Emotions, Powerful Heart Healing, Relationships, success

Hope is a powerful energy, that when used in its highest and purest form, can help you heal and transform! With hope, you can create, receive, and attract higher levels of Love in your life and relationships. Amazing right?

But when “false hope” is applied—or when hope is dismissed as something meaningless and unimportant—this wonderful healing opportunity can go to waste.

By watching this video, you will connect with your heart’s wisdom and gain an understanding of genuine hope and how you can apply it to your life and relationships on an ongoing basis so that you can experience more love, joy, and freedom.

Watch it here====> https://youtu.be/oNdSP8vUNVU

Energy Replenishing for Empaths

by | Dec 23, 2020 | boundaries, dealing with drama, Empowerment from Relationship Trauma, forgiveness, Free spirit in relationship, relationship challenges, Uncategorized

Being an empath is beautiful.  Being able to connect so deeply with another and be able to feel their emotions is a beautiful gift. The problem is when we are experiencing the less desirable aspects of being so sensitive such as feeling depleting or not realizing that the pain you are feeling is not even your own. In this video,  you will gain insight into how you can replenish your energy.

Watch here: https://youtu.be/Z9sxHiv4pWA

In this video, I shed light on the Illusion of Sacrifice, one of the six Illusions of Relationship™.

the drama of going your own way

by | Dec 3, 2020 | Uncategorized

Your stomach churns. Your heart races.  You have just spoken your truth only to find that someone else is let down.  Perhaps they expected more of you than you were willing to give?  Maybe you were (knowingly or unknowingly) dishonest. Or maybe, things changed.

Either way, it feels uncomfortable.  A choice has been made and there is no going back to how things were. From that choice, and from the outcome of that choice, you are no longer the same person.

Yes, although it feels uncomfortable, there is also an impending joyful alignment!! Transformation, healing, and change can be messy.

We all have the potential to be divine masterpieces in our divine messes. 

Often we are afraid to do things differently for fear that they will not work out. The fear of failure can stop us dead in our tracks.  But what happens when we do take risks?

Sure, you might “fail,” but one thing is certain—clarity will prevail.

In March of this year, I declared I was permanently relocating to Maui. I took some serous spontaneous action, living in Hawaii for six months—four of those months without my husband, Daniel, and our sweet pets.

Well, near the end of my time there, things changed.  While I loved Maui deeply and received so many blessings there, I had a deep knowing inside of me that it was time to go. Even though it was a tearful goodbye, the choice to leave made sense to me. And even though I intellectually knew that, I still needed to allowed myself ample time to understand and detangle my emotions around the entire experience.

It’s been a little over two months since returning to Texas. In this time I have enjoyed being in the same physical space as Daniel and in my comfy home as I go deep into contemplation.  Here is just a little bit of what I found:

I liken much of my experience to a relationship. You know—the kind where you love the person deeply but the sacrifice required is often too great a price to pay?  

I see my time in Hawaii as a beautiful love affair, where I had initially intended to stay, only to see that doing so was no longer aligned.

Leaving was my way of breaking free of the Illusion of Sacrifice, one of the six Illusions of Relationship™ that keeps us from connecting with Love and living our life on our soul’s terms.

Releasing our attachment to something working out a certain way (or our attachment to a certain someone) is an act of courage. At Love Renegades we say courage is the vehicle of love. It takes guts to chart your own course, to leave a situation, to say no, and to say yes.

So yes, even loving and courageous choices can come with drama!  What do you think? Can you relate?

Here are three prompts for you to contemplate:

  • To what or to whom are you attached? 
  • What risks do you feel afraid to take?
  • What are your reasons for resisting change?

Even if feels uncomfortable and even if you feel emotional and maybe even nauseated—what if you trusted that everything was working out for you? What if you genuinely allowed yourself the gift of empowered healing expansion as you navigated your own course, outside your comfort zone?