by lauren | Feb 14, 2017 | Uncategorized
It happened more than 10 years ago, but I still recall their pained expressions. I remember how quickly their wounds were covered up and overcompensated with anger and the “how dare she” snide “mean girl” behavior that soon followed.
Listen to me read this wisdom burst by clicking here!
Just seconds before they were a beautiful group of friends enjoying their time together. Now because of one comment that I made—-a comment that can be summed up to “oh how fun that you all are celebrating together on Valentine’s Day,” I found myself in a situation where I just could not win.
See, when I graduated from college, I moved to Austin, TX. I was following my dream of living in one of my favorite cities. I was supporting myself by waiting tables. Most people I encountered on that Valentine’s Day dinner shift were in the agony of heartbreak.
They wanted to be seen, served, and loved, but no matter how hard I worked or how many times I refilled their cheesy biscuits (yes I worked at Red Lobster) nothing was good enough. They were just bound and determined to take their misery out on me.
This is an issue that I see happening with so many of us, human-folk. As people, when we are not happy, we have a tendency to take our problems and pain out on others. We may feel that because someone has something that we want—-whether it is boundless love with a sexy someone—or someones!— or limitless money and success—we comfort our discomfort by directing negative thoughts and actions towards others.
In moments like this, we are passing our own judgement of ourselves—-all of our inadequacies, our sense of low self-worth, and our insecurities—-onto them. But here is the good news: if you can be jealous of someone else’s circumstances, then guess what? You too can enjoy the same circumstances!!
Sure, you may not have the relationship or love life that you desire right now. You may not be over-the-moon happy with your body, your current job or relationship, but know this: if you can have such a strong reaction to something—-then that means that it too can be yours.
Now, I will not get all woo woo with you and tell you that all you have to do is think positive thoughts, wave your magic wand, and will that relationship, that love life, those juicy delicious circumstances that you LOVE, into your experience. That would be lying.
What I can tell you is that you can have these things through choosing to heal your heart and put effort into having the desire that you want. Healing and effort is a power combo!!
See, when we experience desire—-whether it comes in as feelings of yearning OR feelings of jealousy—-this is our heart’s way of communicating with us. Those less than savory “negative” feelings that you are experiencing? That’s your heart! Those loving giddy excited feelings? That’s your heart too!
If you listen to your heart, your heart will show you where your love—-your attention and effort—-is needed. Your heart is your greatest ally.
Be aware that what your heart shows you may not always be pretty. All of those judgements you feel toward yourself and others? That is your heart crying for your attention. That is your heart asking for healing and pleading for you to reconnect with it.
This Valentine’s Day, will you choose to listen to your heart, love yourself up, and take steps to heal your heart?
If your answer is yes, then I would love to assist you with a Heart Reconnection Session. In this free session, I will listen carefully, ask questions, give loving and honest insight, and shed light on practical steps you can take to heal your heart and bring your desire into reality. Please apply for your session here: https://laurenkaywyatt.com/apply-renegade-session/
If you can align with your heart, you are on your way to being unstoppable. You are on your way to no longer being affected by the actions of others or feeling bad about what you do or do not have. You are on your way to creating love within and around you.
So, Happy Valentine’s Day to you!! It is my greatest intention that you choose to love you today.
by lauren | Feb 8, 2017 | Uncategorized
Ever found yourself in a fit of complaining? You know—-one of those days when it feels like the gods are against you and NOTHING is going your way?
These are the days where you feel like no one understands you or “gets” you. You may feel all alone and maybe even disillusioned. These days are not fun!!
I refer to these “special days” as trips to Annoyingville! The thing about Annoyingville is that it can be isolating and painful.
But these days can offer you great insight into how you can break free of your mood and your limitations.
To assist in you in healing during your time in Annoyingville, I did an impromptu livestream, and now I am sharing the video with you here!
Watch the video by clicking on the image below!
Does this video inspire you to go deeper and connect with your heart for more LOVE? If so, then please accept my invitation for a Heart Connection Session. In this FREE session, available by application-only, you will receive:
- insight into what is really blocking you from receiving love
- awareness into illusions that are separating you from love
- practical action steps you can take to heal your heart and have your best relationship.
Apply here: https://laurenkaywyatt.com/apply-renegade-session/
After I review your application, I let you know within 24-48 hours, if your application has been accepted. Please know that I have an application process to make certain that I am a good fit for you!! 🙂
by lauren | Jan 26, 2017 | Uncategorized
You feel heat rising in your body. Your throat starts to itch. You begin to feel nauseated. Your upper lip begins to quiver. No, you are not having an allergy attack!! You are getting ready to do something really uncomfortable.
Some call it speaking your truth. Others call it setting boundaries. I call it revolting for love. It is vulnerability, courage, and LOVE in action—-a form of self-love that has the power to transform your circumstances.
Watch my short video below that I made just for you: you sensitive and beautiful soul.
It is my intention that this video serves you in breaking the laws of love, revolting for love, and creating the love that you want—-on your terms!
How does this video make you feel? You can let me know by writing me privately at lauren@loverenegades.com or by leaving a comment right here, on my blog. If you have any follow-up questions, please reach out and ask!
I love connecting with you. xo
by lauren | Jan 5, 2017 | Uncategorized
Don’t you love the feeling of release that comes right after January 1st? My most obvious reason for this—-which I am sure that you can relate to—- is that “the holidays” is definitely not my favorite time of year!
Being an empath might have something to do with. Feeling the gut-wrenching pressure of “getting things done” in activities and customs that I do not really care to participate in feels icky. Dealing with those pesky “I am not good enough” issues is such an anxiety-ball waste-of-time. Can you relate?
Ultimately, my reason for not enjoying the more traditional expression of “the holidays” comes down to a choice. Simply put, I choose not to enjoy senseless convention and society’s rules.
(This is one reason why my husband and I opted to go to Mexico for the first part of December. There, we attended a beautiful beach wedding and celebrated his 40th birthday. Then, we enjoyed both Christmas and many of the nights of Chanukah alone together. It was romantic, simple, and utterly delectable!)
Even if it seems otherwise, please know that you really DO have a choice when it comes to doing things YOUR way. And believe me—-I know that sometimes it does not seem that way AT ALL.
Up until about six years ago, I had a period of not wanting to do anything because I felt so much pressure and felt things so deeply. I sensed that people wanted me to do things that I did not want to do them. I had a hard time saying no. I was not brave enough to connect with that I did want. Really, I was burnt out and depressed and my love tank was on low. It was not a life that I wanted to live. I did some spiritual healing work, started making new choices, and aligned my life.
Now, I am a love renegade who has created her best relationship and who has liberated herself from a lot of life’s burdens and set backs. Now I live my passion by assisting other awesome people—-like you—-in creating their best relationships—- I am overflowing with passion about what it means to live an obligation-free life, doing things your way, and to have this reflected in your intimate relationships!
Some people may think that my approach is very selfish. Some people may find it unreasonable.
Is it unreasonable to connect with your heart and own what you desire?
Is it selfish to come from love over fear?
Is it selfish to be genuine?
This is what it is to revolt for love and to break the laws of love!
The laws of love are illusions or “society’s conventions” that make absolutely no sense. These “laws” keep you from experiencing love and liberation in your relationships.
As a Love Renegade, it my greatest pleasure to shed light on the Laws of Love and how you can break them!
Watch an intro to breaking the laws of love that I did on Facebook Livestream last week below:
And if you are ready to take it a few steps deeper, apply for a Love Life Breakthrough Session with me. This is a divine opportunity to receive insight into which laws of love you are falling into, the healing that is needed to break free, and practical guidance from me. Apply for that session here: https://laurenkaywyatt.com/apply-renegade-session/
Let’s revolt for love together!
by lauren | Dec 8, 2016 | Uncategorized
If you are having a hard time this December, you are not alone. Whether its feeling lonely or not good enough or pretty “blegh” in the love and passion department—-December is a time when your heart will demand your attention.
If you are ready to receive more love, release heartbreak, and reclaim your intimate relationships and love life, it is time to reconnect with your heart.
One way you can do that is by watching the video below.
Sending hugs!
Love,
Lauren
