by lauren | Jan 26, 2017 | Uncategorized
You feel heat rising in your body. Your throat starts to itch. You begin to feel nauseated. Your upper lip begins to quiver. No, you are not having an allergy attack!! You are getting ready to do something really uncomfortable.
Some call it speaking your truth. Others call it setting boundaries. I call it revolting for love. It is vulnerability, courage, and LOVE in action—-a form of self-love that has the power to transform your circumstances.
Watch my short video below that I made just for you: you sensitive and beautiful soul.
It is my intention that this video serves you in breaking the laws of love, revolting for love, and creating the love that you want—-on your terms!
How does this video make you feel? You can let me know by writing me privately at lauren@loverenegades.com or by leaving a comment right here, on my blog. If you have any follow-up questions, please reach out and ask!
I love connecting with you. xo
by lauren | Jan 5, 2017 | Uncategorized
Don’t you love the feeling of release that comes right after January 1st? My most obvious reason for this—-which I am sure that you can relate to—- is that “the holidays” is definitely not my favorite time of year!
Being an empath might have something to do with. Feeling the gut-wrenching pressure of “getting things done” in activities and customs that I do not really care to participate in feels icky. Dealing with those pesky “I am not good enough” issues is such an anxiety-ball waste-of-time. Can you relate?
Ultimately, my reason for not enjoying the more traditional expression of “the holidays” comes down to a choice. Simply put, I choose not to enjoy senseless convention and society’s rules.
(This is one reason why my husband and I opted to go to Mexico for the first part of December. There, we attended a beautiful beach wedding and celebrated his 40th birthday. Then, we enjoyed both Christmas and many of the nights of Chanukah alone together. It was romantic, simple, and utterly delectable!)
Even if it seems otherwise, please know that you really DO have a choice when it comes to doing things YOUR way. And believe me—-I know that sometimes it does not seem that way AT ALL.
Up until about six years ago, I had a period of not wanting to do anything because I felt so much pressure and felt things so deeply. I sensed that people wanted me to do things that I did not want to do them. I had a hard time saying no. I was not brave enough to connect with that I did want. Really, I was burnt out and depressed and my love tank was on low. It was not a life that I wanted to live. I did some spiritual healing work, started making new choices, and aligned my life.
Now, I am a love renegade who has created her best relationship and who has liberated herself from a lot of life’s burdens and set backs. Now I live my passion by assisting other awesome people—-like you—-in creating their best relationships—- I am overflowing with passion about what it means to live an obligation-free life, doing things your way, and to have this reflected in your intimate relationships!
Some people may think that my approach is very selfish. Some people may find it unreasonable.
Is it unreasonable to connect with your heart and own what you desire?
Is it selfish to come from love over fear?
Is it selfish to be genuine?
This is what it is to revolt for love and to break the laws of love!
The laws of love are illusions or “society’s conventions” that make absolutely no sense. These “laws” keep you from experiencing love and liberation in your relationships.
As a Love Renegade, it my greatest pleasure to shed light on the Laws of Love and how you can break them!
Watch an intro to breaking the laws of love that I did on Facebook Livestream last week below:
And if you are ready to take it a few steps deeper, apply for a Love Life Breakthrough Session with me. This is a divine opportunity to receive insight into which laws of love you are falling into, the healing that is needed to break free, and practical guidance from me. Apply for that session here: https://laurenkaywyatt.com/apply-renegade-session/
Let’s revolt for love together!
by lauren | Dec 8, 2016 | Uncategorized
If you are having a hard time this December, you are not alone. Whether its feeling lonely or not good enough or pretty “blegh” in the love and passion department—-December is a time when your heart will demand your attention.
If you are ready to receive more love, release heartbreak, and reclaim your intimate relationships and love life, it is time to reconnect with your heart.
One way you can do that is by watching the video below.
Sending hugs!
Love,
Lauren
by lauren | Nov 23, 2016 | Uncategorized
Meet your delightfully rebellious heart. Say hello to Thanksgiving. While you are at it, make a wave at the end of the year and add on a big scoop of what it’s like to ride on the tails of a contentious election.
Eeeek, right?!?!
I mean with a combination like this—-you know the highly flammable kind—-the type that creates what we will call an inflamed situation—is likely to spontaneously combust at any time with hurt feelings, lash outs, and backed up emotion tension. Yes, for times like these, it might be best to just give yourself permission to back away from the situation and assess from another vantage point.
So let’s do that together…And while we are at it, let’s just admit that maybe right now—-at at a time in which everyone (maybe you are even participating in this too by some degree) is telling us to just be grateful—-maybe you are honestly finding that a little tough these days…
Perhaps you are concerned about what is happening at Standing Rock. Maybe you feel guilty about enjoying a big huge meal when you think about where Thanksgiving really came from and the exploitation of the Native American people. Maybe it bothers you because you do not eat meat and meat is kind of the focal point of the meal. Maybe you are annoyed with others who keep pointing out problems that you have no idea how to solve…
You might even be stressed about the results and fall out of the election. Maybe you just really want to unplug and you are are not looking forward to spending time with loved ones who see things differently from how you see them.
Yet, even in all of this, there is still a part of you—-a big part—-that simply wants to be at peace with yourself and be free…Maybe this Thanksgiving, you want to have a nice meal and you want to enjoy yourself, and love everyone around you, and maybe—-since you are a love renegade at heart—-you want to do it on your terms and not be fake…
Does any of this sound familiar? 🙂
These are just a few of the different expressions of the conundrum of the heart-centered, people-oriented, and highly conscious individual.
You really see things from such an elevated and unique point-of-view. You are truly wired to shed light and offer comfort to others. This is such a beautiful position to be in, but maybe it is especially hard right now.
Do you feel stuck when it comes to receiving love?
Do you feel like others do not appreciate you or listen to you?
Do you find yourself being resentful of others?
Do you find yourself being hard on yourself?
Have you been feeling especially critical lately?
If you answered yes, then I would like you to acknowledge that your rebel heart is begging for your attention. Listen to your heart by really feeling into the questions below…What would your love life, relationships, and life in general be like if you…
…Released self-judgement?
…Embraced your desire to attract and receive love?
…Experienced healing?
Right now you might be thinking, OK Lauren, that all makes sense, but I am not sure how.
One way that I can personally assist you is through a service I offer called a healing elixir, a long-distance energy healing treatment that will help you release resentment and fear and open your heart, mind, and body to LOVE and the power of your heart’s journey.
In a healing elixir, you will experience newfound confidence from the wisdom of your rebel heart and discover a clear path to how you can love yourself while loving others and allowing yourself the freedom and space to receive love by stepping out of fear with A.) an energy healing treatment facilitated by me and activated by you B.) a written reading filled with loving soul wisdom and insight into your heart’s journey and loving intuitive advice that is grounded in universal law on how you can attract more love C.) and a 30 minute PRIVATE session with me that is a total love fest all about you! 🙂
I am so passionate about my healing elixir service and I absolutely love giving healing elixirs to amazing heart-centered people like you!
So if you feel like it is time to practice some radical self love and say YES to receiving and attracting love and to truly show yourself some love and gratitude, then please: will you do me the honor of receiving a healing elixir? If your answer is yes, invest in yourself with a healing elixir today by clicking on the link below.
Purchase Your Healing Elixir
After I receive notification of your payment, I will reach out to you via email to schedule your healing elixir and to obtain information that I need to create it.
In the meantime, I am sending you lots of love. Please know that t I am deeply grateful for you. Because of you, I get to connect with you at least once or twice a month with love renegade advice on how you can have your best relationship and experience love—-on your terms.
Before I go, I want to reiterate that getting a healing elixir is all about you. Many of us heart-centered people feel weird about investing in ourselves. Some of us may find it highly uncomfortable when we are going through a hard time. Regardless of where you’re personally at right now, with all of the things you could buy for Black Friday, be a love renegade and give yourself this gift of healing. Like attracts like and choosing to love you always benefits you and everyone around you.
XO
Blessings,
Lauren
by lauren | Nov 16, 2016 | Uncategorized
Imagine that you and I are in a fight. In this moment, you hear about all of the ways in which you are deficient. You are reminded of all of your failures as a light shines brightly on a lot on all of your inadequacies.
OMG! Don’t I just sound like the worst person in the world?!
Click here for the audio version of this message.
Let’s continue with this scenario and pretend—just for a moment—that because, I am in fact *the worst, you choose to cut me out of your life and never ever speak to me again. You choose to unfriend me. You gossip about me. You call me abusive. Maybe you let everyone know that it is because of me (and how awful I am) that you will never ever succeed in love or in life.
And that really, really sucks. 🙁
Because we were never in a fight. All you did was ask for my opinion, my feedback on the situation. You asked me why things—-your relationships, your health, etc—-were not turning out in your favor, and I told you the truth.
I was not even “brutally honest” with you. I simply facilitated some support in connecting the dots as to why A+B (and C and D) has brought you to the outcome that you are currently experiencing.In the moment of truth—-of LIGHT—-you blamed me and made everything my fault.
The only person who ever brought judgement into this interaction was YOU.
Of course the “you” I address to is not you—-not specifically anyway…Instead I speak to the little you, your ego—-or Junior as I like to call it. Everyone, no matter how empowered or spiritual they think they are, has a Junior. In fact, my first spiritual teacher once told me “the bigger the spirit, the bigger the ego.”
Yes, my friend, my Junior is pretty freakin big! 🙂 (And my spirit is really big and vibrant and bright and shiny too!!)
And I am grateful for my big ass Junior. Why? Because if it were not for the massive victim consciousness of an illusion that I used to be entrenched in, I would not be where I am today.
See, I used to be someone who would blame others for my circumstances. For every relationship that did not work out, it was the other person’s fault. For every obstacle I encountered, it was always because I was at a disadvantage or because I did not have A, B, or C. I also used to get really, really down on myself. I was so mean and hateful to myself. I made myself wrong for anything good that I tried to do.
One day, I got really, really tired of it all. I was completely over myself. I decided to break free of all of the junk. I chose to break free from the mindless repression of the status quo.
In a moment of truth, I chose to BE RESPONSIBLE.
Responsibility is a word that many of us free spirit types may cringe when we hear it…This and that annoying word “discipline” go hand-in-hand. But responsibility really is sexy. Let me tell you why and first let’s start with what is NOT attractive and sexy.
It is not sexy (unless you are into that whole damsel-in-distress nonsense) to be helpless, powerless, and wounded. If there is any part of you that wants to be rescued or feels that everything would just get a whole lot better if so-and-so behaved in the way that you wanted them to behave, I ask you: how do you want others to feel when they are around you?
If you want people to truly want to spend time with you, be with you, and appreciate you, then YOU get to be someone they would want to spend time with!
Honestly, do you enjoy being around someone who complains constantly? (Does misery really love company? lol) Are you someone who constantly places blame on others? Are you someone who always has a problem? Are you always talking or thinking about what a failure you are?
In case you were detecting any judgement in my tone, I am asking you to recognize this as your own judgment. (We are not in a fight, remember?) I am simply connecting with you, from a place of love, on how you can have the relationship that you long for and the results that you love…
…Which leads me into another possibly more serious aspect of this conversation…
Often when a person is complaining and crying about how badly they are treated by others and how disillusioned they are within their relationships, it sheds light onto all of the ways in which that person has blocked herself from receiving love.
Can you see how it is an act of self-love to admit that maybe you have been blocking you from receiving and attracting love?
Trust me, even if it appears to be unconventional or inconvenient or feels uncomfortable, taking responsibility for your circumstances makes you a highly attractive person. To be responsible is to love yourself and to embrace life. Like attracts like. If you love you, you create love within and around you. You become a love bug!! 🙂
OK back to me——
When I chose to accept and embrace every single problem in my life as an opportunity for peace, healing, and transformation, my life transformed. My heart expanded. My love life became really, really good.
Choosing to be responsible is a choice to truly heal. It is healing all of the parts of yourself that you may have abandoned.
It was NOT an easy choice for me to make, but when I looked in the mirror, I did not like who I had become.
In that moment, I made a new choice. I chose to be responsible. I chose love. I chose to heal.
And you can too….And look, I don’t care how evolved you are or how much “work” you have already done, everyone can stand to grow and transform just a bit more. To think that you are “done evolving” simply is not true. It is an illusion that is made to keep you exactly where you are, when in fact, there is always an opportunity for love. For expansion. Healing is love. Love is part of expansion.
In this moment, I want to offer you an opportunity. This opportunity is to have a healing elixir with me. A healing elixir is a very sexy service that I offer that includes a loving and empowering energy healing treatment, a written reading from me filled with divine messages that are intended to support YOU on your healing journey, and a 30 minute processing session with me.
In a healing elixir, you will discover and become enlightened to the following:
- Your infinite potential
- Specific opportunities to choose love over fear
- Healing guidance from your spirit guides and angels
Choose to be the Light that you are, put your Junior in his place, and choose to be SEXY by getting a healing elixir today. Click here to get this healing party started.
If you are not sure if this service is for you, contact me at lauren@loverenegades.com and we will connect about this together. 🙂
In the meantime, I send you universal love, lots of hugs, and #revoltforlove blessings.
To Your Inner Love Renegade,
Lauren
I mean with a combination like this—-you know the highly flammable kind—-the type that creates what we will call an inflamed situation—is likely to spontaneously combust at any time with hurt feelings, lash outs, and backed up emotion tension. Yes, for times like these, it might be best to just give yourself permission to back away from the situation and assess from another vantage point.
