by lauren | May 26, 2016 | Uncategorized
What if…
- …Doing the “right thing” is keeping you from having all that you want and more in your love life?
- …Always “being there” for others is blocking you from attracting your best relationship?
- …Giving is costing you your own well-being in your physical, spiritual, and emotional health and in your relationships?
Are you someone…
- who works hard at keeping the peace?
- strives for spiritual enlightenment?
- is often the first person to accommodate or bend to another person’s needs?
- gives of themselves?
Are you finally ready to experience love, appreciation—maybe even validation—for all of the love, hard work, and energy that you pour into your relationships and projects?
If you answered yes to any of the above or if you have a friend, partner, or loved one who feel meets the above criteria, then stay with me as dismantle another illusion together.
An illusion is something that appears to be true, but in reality, creates disempowerment and feeds into many untruths. In other words, an illusion will only lead you further away from what you desire.
Let’s look at this…
Have you heard the expressions and/or experienced the notion of the following?
- Nice guys/people finish last.
Now, I am going to assume that many of us feel that this is false. We want to believe that nice people live happily ever after, but maybe your experience has been the opposite of that? Maybe in your experience, you have been very nice and received very little in return?
- Give what you want to get.
This is where it gets tricky. See, this expression is one of my favorites and its application is/was/has been a great philosophy of mine…However, I feel that many of us heart-centered people do not apply this spiritual adage correctly.
In applying this expression to our lives, we may believe that…
- If in a relationships, that…
- if we want our partner to love and respect us, then we get to:
- fight or stand up for ourselves until they get it.
- give and give and give so that they see how great we are and reward for it
- If single/dating, that…
- if we want someone we are dating to commit to us or someone to notice us enough to ask us out, then we get to:
- give and give and give a lot so that the other person will perhaps give us what we want.
- show how great we are: how knowledgeable that we are, how beautiful we are, etc. so that the other person will commit to us or ask us out
- appeal to that person at the expense of ourselves so that they will love us and appreciate us and maybe even commit to us.
And regardless of which of the above applies to your personal situation, the end result is the same: disappointment and heartbreak.
So where’s the illusion?
We covered the groundwork with various situations where a heart-centered, loving, and nurturing person (maybe even you perhaps) could be sabotaging their relationship/love life through being a nice person.
Sometimes traditionally nice people can get very resentful when they do not experience gratitude, appreciation, or validation in return. Sometimes they may be burnt out, bitter, or even jaded about love because they feel like they have nothing more to give. They feel depleted.
This breaks my heart as the entire situation could be resolved if new choices, love-based choices were made instead of choices based on fear, habit, and illusion.
Are you ready to dive deeper into how you can have a new experience in your love life and relationship?
Ever wondered how you can experience love and appreciation from others, instead of simply being the one who is always giving?
by lauren | May 23, 2016 | Uncategorized
When you hear the words free spirit, what is the first image, thought, or feeling that comes into your heart?
Perhaps it is…
- …Someone who cannot be bound?
- …Someone who does life to the beat of her own drum?
- …Someone who defies convention and authority?
Do you consider yourself to be a free spirit?
Do you find yourself admiring the free spirits in your life?
Do you love spending time with free spirits as every moment with them is an adventure?
Or, on the flipside…
- …Does a person with free spirit qualities agitate you?
- ….Have you felt abandoned, betrayed, or hurt by a free spirit?
- …Did your interactions with a free spirit cause you to feel like you just could not measure up?
Are you a free spirit who has…
- …Clipped your own wings (or allowed for them to be clipped) to fit in?
- …Flown away from limitations instead of through the limitations?
- …Parted ways with people who felt were trying to control you?
- …Resigned yourself to being single?
- …Feels your current relationship isn’t exciting, expansive, or supportive enough?
Do you hold any of the following beliefs?
- No partner or potential partner is truly at your level of consciousness
- Relationships intrude on your personal freedom
- Your dream relationship does not exist in reality
If you feel triggered or deep resonance with anything that we just covered, I invite you to watch the following two segments taken from a virtual event I hosted last week called Soul-Level Healing for Your Broken Heart.
Instead of posting the entire training here, I felt it was best to share segments with you. In these particular segments, you will discover:
- How your free spirit is helping or harming you in your relationships and love life
- Insight into deeply held beliefs that are no longer serving you on having your best relationship
- Empathy and compassion into a free spirit’s thought process
- Actions that you can take to transform your relationship karma and heal your heart
This first video features free spirit, Patricia and her struggle in crafting a relationship that reflects her soul’s true essence.
This next video features free spirit, “Ali” (not her real name.) “Ali” feels she has outgrown her current relationship, and it breaks her heart.
Does this content resonate with you or trigger you? I welcome your feedback.
by lauren | May 17, 2016 | Uncategorized
On Friday night, I reconnected and celebrated with an old friend. I remembered the time when this person first entered my world…
…I was a scared teenager who was trying very hard to fit in. I felt that what I truly wanted—some type of creative and meaningful existence—would unfortunately not be possible due to expectations surrounding me.
- This person gave me permission to feel my heart.
- This person helped me explore my emotions.
- This person was free.
- This person is Robert Smith, the lead singer of The Cure.
Ok, so while I have not had the pleasure of personally meeting Robert, I am incredibly grateful and appreciative of his impact on my life.
See, I can relate to him. Sometimes when people look at me, they laugh. When I tell them that I am a Love Psychic, I conjure up anything from:
- Surprised looks—say what?
- To a “what are you doing here?”
- And the occasional “oh that’s interesting, tell me more.”
Some people ask me what I really do with my time…What’s my real job, they ask. (And I love responding that I run a successful company!)
I used to want to fit in, but now, I have thankfully chosen to take the authentic high road, a choice that supports you in creating your best relationship.
Here’s why:
- A huge part of how I approach relationships has to do with the healing aspect of it all
- See, if you are not in your best relationship now (and if you want to be) you cannot manifest one until you connect with why you currently do not have one now
- Diving deep into the healing aspects of transforming a current relationship or crafting a new relationship is empowering
- Being conscious, aware, and empowered is passionate and sexy combination!! (Passionate and sexy attracts passionate and sexy!)
Will you accept my invitation to allow me to support you in this healing process by attending a free virtual event that I am giving?
What: Soul-Level Healing for Your Broken Heart, a free virtual event where I will be giving mini readings, coaching, and offering support on healing and having your best relationship.
When: Tomorrow, Wednesday May 18, 2016 at 2 PM Central
Where: The internet, more specifically on social media platform called Blab im.
How: This is just a tad complicated, but definitely not impossible.
- Get a Twitter account at https://twitter.com/.
- Head over to https://blab.im/ and get a Blab account.
- When you are in your Blab account, type my name “laurenkaywyatt” into the search-bar. From there, will see my name and picture pop up.
- Click on my picture, click on my scheduled Blabs, click on “Q&A: Soul-level Healing for Your Broken Heart” and then SUBSCRIBE to the event!
If you require assistance in attending the event, let me know. I am definitely not the most technologically savvy of people, but I will help you get there.
If you want to receive a reading or be coached, contact me here and let me know your particular situation.
Please share this event and the “directions to the party” with your friends.
Love Renegade Blessings,
Lauren
by lauren | May 11, 2016 | Uncategorized
On Monday morning, I woke up with a flash of insight.
What would it be like if we were willing to drop the words “I’m sorry” from our vocabulary?
Before anyone gets all heated and accuses me of being unconscious or uncompassionate (not that you would do that) I urge you to reflect upon how often you apologize.
If it is a lot, consider that you might be giving too much of your energy to someone else’s problems or circumstances…Is this a smokescreen for your true feelings? Does it distract you from getting your own life on track?
Instead of saying you are sorry, what else could you say instead?
And for anyone who is waiting for an apology from someone else…I will just say it:
It’s time to let that shit go.
I mean really…Of all of the other things you could be thinking about or doing, you are choosing to spend your time on someone who has hurt you.
This type of behavior only serves in creating resentment. Feeling resentful is a huge energy-suck. It is SO draining.
What if you put your time and energy into healing instead?
One way you can do this is to accept my invitation to join me for a FREE virtual event, Soul-Level Healing for Your Broken Heart.
- What: Soul-Level Healing for Your Broken Heart. This is an opportunity for you to receive healing insights, mini readings, and live coaching from me.
- When: Wednesday, May 18th at 2 PM Central Time.
- Why: Having a broken heart is a very real part of being human. If our heart does not heal, it makes it very hard to enjoy our relationships and have passion.
- Really, choosing to heal your heart is one of the most badass things you can do.
- It is empowering.
- When we are empowered, we attract Love.
- How: Attend Soul-Level Healing for Your Broken Heart where you will receive loving insight from mini readings and live coaching from me. To attend:
- Get a Twitter account at https://twitter.com/.
- Head over to https://blab.im/and get a Blab im account.
- If you have an iPhone, you can get the Blab im app. (If you have an Android, see if it works in your browser and if not, try Chrome.)
- When you are in your Blab im account, type my name “laurenkaywyatt” into the search-bar. From there, will see my name and picture pop up.
- Click on my picture, click on my scheduled Blabs, click on “Q&A: Soul-level Healing for Your Broken Heart” and then SUBSCRIBE to the event!
If you want to be coached or receive a reading, reach out and let me know.
by lauren | May 6, 2016 | Uncategorized
Heartbreak is a form of suffering and everyone will suffer in some way or another.
Here’s the truth…
If you are courageous enough to allow yourself to be in a relationship, then heartbreak is an inevitable experience.
Instead of trying to escape the pain, feel resentful, or blame someone else for your own unhappiness, why not heal your heart instead?
Really, choosing to heal is one of the most rebellious and courageous things that you can do.
In the video, I go shed light on heartbreak and its negative effects on you, your passion, and your relationships.
To take it a step further, please accept my invitation to attend Soul Level Healing for Your Broken Heart, an interactive and virtual event that I am hosting on Wednesday, May 18, 2016 at 2 PM Central time where:
- You can receive a mini reading or coaching (either directly from me or by watching someone else)
- Begin to heal your heart
- Expand your heart and vision to what’s possible for you in your love life
- Receive practical action steps for what’s next
To attend the event, you must RSVP by subscribing to the event. Here’s how:
- Get a Twitter account
- When you have a Twitter account and either:
- Go to https://blab.im/ on your desktop and get a Blab im account.
- If you want to use your smart phone get the Blab im app on your iPhone. If you have an Android, you may need to use Chrome as a browser.
- When you are in blab, type my name “laurenkaywyatt” in the searchbar. When you see my picture, click on it and then click on my Blab, Soul-level Healing for Your Broken Heart and subscribe.
- Or try going directly to the event page by clicking here.
I look forward to giving great information, live readings, and coaching where you will receive:
- Healing secrets to release relationship woes
- Strategies on reclaiming your freedom and passion
If you want to interact with me on the call, please let me know! 🙂
And if you want to get right to it and private conversation with me about your love life, then apply for your very own Love Life Makeover Session with me.
These sessions are available by application-only and are reserved for people who are committed to healing and having their best relationships.
What would it be like if we were willing to drop the words “I’m sorry” from our vocabulary?
