Don’t Let Your Mind Fool You! [Case Study]
Love and intimate relationships are NOT something to just “figure out.” In the last seven years of working with clients on their relationships and love lives, I have found that some of us approach love with caution—-believing that if we can “figure it out,” we will...
The Dance of Indignation
Definition of indignant: feeling or showing anger because of something unjust or unworthy : filled with or marked by indignation (Merriam-Webster Dictionary. I remember how I felt when I "met" this word. I remember feeling seen, loved, and "at home" within myself,...
Missed Connections
It was during the summer of 2009 when I wrote my first [and so far only] missed connection. I was living in my hometown, El Paso, TX, working a job I barely tolerated, and grappling with the predicament of being in love with two men at the same time. To cope...
Leap Into Love Liberation
Each time I connect with a client I am amazed by the wisdom that comes through. I am always left feeling energized and completely in awe. Each person I work with is so precious and each session is sacred. Being coached, coaching, and watching someone be coached can be...
Confronting Your Way to Compassion
In many spiritual and personal development circles, there is a lot of talk about compassion and love, but there is a culture of avoidance when it comes to confrontation. As a Love Renegade I believe that confrontation is sacred. It is an opportunity to stand in your...
[video] Genuine Coaching Session- The reason why you do not have what you want
Maybe you are thinking, "Ummm, why would I want to watch someone else's session?" Here's why...We are all reflections of each other! Every human will [directly or indirectly] engage the same universal patterns. And yes, though we are all a part of the same source,...
Be True to You: Especially on Valentine’s Day
If there is any day to be completely truthful with yourself, it is today: Valentine's Day. To be honest, I am not fond of holidays. I do not enjoy the social obligation of participating in them. I do not like the "collective vibe" of many holidays or how they...
Go Ahead. Be a “Jerk”
I am not breaking up with you. I am simply letting you know that what we have is dead. These were the words I spoke to Daniel (just months before I asked him to marry me) in 2011. [Listen to me read this blog post here. (Just so that you know it is just a little bit...
Solution to STOP Feeling Let Down & Drained in Relationships
Relationships are not always easy. Whenever two or more people get together, there can be conflicts, arguments, and even awkward and uncomfortable moments. Sometimes this discomfort can be linked to things not really turning out as planned. If you are anything like...
That’s it, I QUIT.
I grew up in a home where quitting was not an option. It was something so strongly engrained in me that I was usually afraid to start anything. What if I didn’t like it? Would I have to keep going to adhere to the family image of not being a quitter? And what if it...